How the hell do grown people make friends?

[TRFG]

What about people that move to different countries or new cities? Shouldn't they make new friends?

Tough luck nikka

 

[Sithlord Piff]

If you donthave knowledge of sports its gonna be hard....sports is the common denominator for men.From this standpoint, making friends is easy...the awkward shyt is how do you keep in contact with these niccas after you depart from wherever yall met at? Personal info has to be exchanged....thats where its tricky cause theres no real masculine way to ask for another niccas number

 

[Theolodius_Black]

I feel you OP. I just moved to Tallahassee and I'm going through that right now. That's because I'm overly cautious though

 

[daboywonder2002]

Does everybody just talk to people they meet in highschool or childhood? I don't know how adults make friends, it's so difficult. I plan on moving soon and I have to start all over. How does a adult make friends? Help me out

Work, church, join some black professional groups in your city. But honestly, just go out by yourself and bag you something. Also depends on your city. A lot of people have their own cliques already. If you're in a city like Atlanta or Dc where there's plenty of transplants, it might be easier.

 

[daboywonder2002]

You might wanna make some female friends first. ONce you get in, then they can put you on.

 

[gho3st]

If you get a job, maybe your new coworkers can become your friends.

u work i an office? stay clear of coworkers

 

[Vodun]

Don't need friends, wife mom, dad, brother in law takes care of all that

 

[Jim Cornette]

all my coworkers are cacs

 

[8WON6]

get actual interests and hobbies and join groups or meet up with other people with similar interests.

 

[GrindMode]

Inability to create adult relationships is a social deviancy.



It's actually a fukkin weird concept to me to be frank.



We're social creatures yet you can't open your mouth, turn on your phone and exchange contact info and meet up to do activities?



Excuses lamer than Drake's outfits and Trump's tans.





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drake can dress wtf nikka who are you to speak

 

[Smokin Rider]

If you don' got anymore childhood friends, you really ain't got no friends. You can't take it back with these new ppl. Still gotta couple day 1s tho

 

[AlainLocke]

The best way to make "friends" as an adult male is provide value to other people's lives...

As an adult...you kinda get over the whole "liking" someone thing and get more into "what can they do for me..."

Everything revolves around trade at this point...

 

[Worthless Loser]

Friends are overrated. I don't have one friend at all and I'm perfectly fine.

 

[old_timer]

I advertised for people wanting to start a Jodeci tribute band..

Spoiler

To be real.. The first couple of rehearsals were awkward as fukk
My wife (rip) didn't want all those freaks in the living room
But we eventually narrowed it down to a solid quartet (it was a comedy act)

Anyway, one of those guys has been a close friend for 10+ years
When he was meeting my current wife, she was like "so how did you guys meet?? "

She didn't believe us until we showed her some pictures

 

[Alvin]

I've been trying to figure that shyt out too. Its especially hard when you think everyone else in your peer group is corny.

nikka this been me for the last 10 years word to god son!
I'm 25