How Tight Is Your Grip On Holding Grudges?

[Marco Zen]

I can't hold grudges. I can never forget what someone did and it will cause me to not have second dealings with them, but I can't hold a grudge. Because by holding a grudge I'm miserable and bitter, but more importantly I allow someone to have power over me because they are able to alter my mood. Its like psychological slavery.

I'd rather have peace.

Isnt refusing to deal with them just like holding a grudge?

 

[Worthless Loser]

Isnt refusing to deal with them just like holding a grudge?

You can nicely turn down someone because of what they did. It doesn't mean you hold a grudge against them. You just don't want to take the chances of putting yourself in a bad spot again.

 

[King Poetic]

Forever

I mean I won't shoot the fukker if I see them, I'll just keep on moving doing me

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

I'm petty as fukk, you get on my wrong side I feel like fukk you.

same way.... all that revenge, dig two holes, you only hurting yourself, blah blah blah..... NOPE


you fukk me over and it's my mission in life to fukk you over an endless amount of times until one of us is dead... i may even fake like i've forgiven you with plans to get closer to fukk you over... but i won't ever forget

 

[Mr210]

Life is too short to be angry and holding grudges like that

 

[Swirv]

I let it go if nobody has been killed, jailed or sexually assaulted

 

[el_oh_el]

There was a 5 year period where I would rarely let go, and it didn't take much for me to retaliate. I've ended up in hospitals, jails, and psych wards because of my resentments and anger. This past month there was somebody's house I want to set on fire (I have the keys), another man's wife I want to hurt (so I have a reason for him to come at me, then I'mma get at him, plus his kids), and another man I want to beat into unconsciousness. They're all my friends.

I've recently been called an a$$hole, bully, punk, and psychotic. It is what it is. I'm getting a lot better, a day at a time. Doing therapy, meds, and spirituality. Life is decent. Haven't found my purpose or where I belong.

nikka
Gotta get a grip on this plehboi

 

[DarkHorse23]

I'm petty as fukk, you get on my wrong side I feel like fukk you.

 

[Marco Zen]

There was a 5 year period where I would rarely let go, and it didn't take much for me to retaliate. I've ended up in hospitals, jails, and psych wards because of my resentments and anger. This past month there was somebody's house I want to set on fire (I have the keys), another man's wife I want to hurt (so I have a reason for him to come at me, then I'mma get at him, plus his kids), and another man I want to beat into unconsciousness. They're all my friends.

I've recently been called an a$$hole, bully, punk, and psychotic. It is what it is. I'm getting a lot better, a day at a time. Doing therapy, meds, and spirituality. Life is decent. Haven't found my purpose or where I belong.

That nikka said ima get at him PLUS HIS KIDS

 

[Sonny Bonds]

Be too nice and people take you for a dummy

 

[Saiyajin]

i only forgive people during Ramadan

 

[Saiyajin]

Be too nice and people take you for a dummy

for real kindness is a female trait

 

[Ol’Otis]

I tried forgiven once
Never again

 

[The Mad Titan]

I dont hold grudges, I usually move on and remember for reference.

 

[Yehuda]

Peep my sig.

But yeah if you touch my nerve I'm gonna do something to touch your nerve then cut you off and move on, so I don't hold grudges I just fukk you over and keep it moving.