How Tight Is Your Grip On Holding Grudges?

[Based Lord Zedd]

I rarely get angry about anything to the point where I actually would have a grudge, but if it gets to that point not going to let it go.

 

[stepbackj34spud]

I hold a mean grudge.. It only takes one time for somebody to get on my bad side forever. I will stop ducking with somebody instantly.

 

[Lo-Co]

It depends on the person and how bad they have crossed me.

 

[Marco Zen]

for real kindness is a female trait

Not entirely

Being kind is some real nikka shyt sometimes... It takes a lot of strength to react with kindness than it does with anger. Its also memtally healthier

I hold a mean grudge.. It only takes one time for somebody to get on my bad side forever. I will stop ducking with somebody instantly.

That's how I am (unfortunately)

Cross me or do or say that one fukked up thing and its forever.


Or until I get out my feelings about it.. Which will probably be never.

 

[Kenyan West]

I emotionally abuse the person for a bit then I be ghost. I'm not the type who gets hype over another person, even if they did me wrong. I'm a big fan of just charging shyt to the game. I take the L, possibly a little embarrassment, learn from the situation and keep it moving. If I see that person again, they're the ones usually walking on eggshells, while I'm like

 

[KravenMorehead™]

There's a difference between someone doing something that gets on my nerves
and someone doing something TO get on my nerves

so as long as their actions "make sense", like it's in their character and they weren't being malicious, i let it go almost immediately, doesn't matter what it is

but if you're fukkin with me just to fukk with me, as in for fun, as in you pick and choose targets to do that shyt to, that shyt is forever

Spoiler: Here I go with the rambling and shyt

and i'm the posterchild for politeness and agreeability so a couple people got it fukked up over the years

It's nikkas i still wanna harm from some shyt when i was 24 and i'm 30 years old

cause i was a fun loving nikka minding his own business and the fukkery made a nikka heart turn black white like the devil

And i used to wish i could go back to being 100% happy go lucky type dude but as i got older i realised i was meant to become this way for a reason

But still, as a side effect, whenever I see someone else fukkin with someone else's emotions however way, or just fukkin with someone in general who ain't did shyt to them, i feel like, people like that gotta go, on reflex

If you read any damn religious myth, or ancient shyt, the most evil person in all those stories, they never do any dirty work. No killing, rape, nothing. The most evil people in all those stories all they do is Mischief. Spread lies. One lie dismantles a whole company, factory, city, country, generation, race. Loki? God of mischief. God of lies. The devil? A liar. So people who spread mischief and lies, or "fukkery" as the coli affectionately calls it, I see them as little human versions/embodiments of that kinda evil, and unless it turns out they had no idea what they were doing? I hold on to that shyt forever

nikkas walkin round who really think like wilson fisk and you fukk around and forgive em and shyt, nah.

 

[Freddie.Cane]

There was a 5 year period where I would rarely let go, and it didn't take much for me to retaliate. I've ended up in hospitals, jails, and psych wards because of my resentments and anger. This past month there was somebody's house I want to set on fire (I have the keys), another man's wife I want to hurt (so I have a reason for him to come at me, then I'mma get at him, plus his kids), and another man I want to beat into unconsciousness. They're all my friends.

I've recently been called an a$$hole, bully, punk, and psychotic. It is what it is. I'm getting a lot better, a day at a time. Doing therapy, meds, and spirituality. Life is decent. Haven't found my purpose or where I belong.

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[TEH]

I forgive and forget in real life but cross me on a message board and it's 'ignore' forever.

 

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

I hold on to grudges so tight, I don't know how to let go. My biggest one is against my mother and it's been 10+ years holding on. It's caused me to be filled with nothing but anger and hatred towards others and myself. Makes me resent everything. It makes me cruel without realizing it.
I want to learn how to forgive, I truly do but I just can't. As far as my mom, she's done/caused too much damage for me to turn the other cheek for.
My grudge cause me to have self-hatred towards myself, the most, & to people who cross me, no matter how small the situation is/was. It cause me to be placed in psychiatric wards, brought about suicidal intents, bipolar depression & countless medications.
I'm 21 & I can't enjoy life with all this going on. I have my own car, own place, great income but..... I can't look on the bright side of having it all. I thought having a grudge was minor just as I thought having depression disorder was minor but it isn't until now I realize how serious it is.

I want to let go but I can't.

 

[Kobes Two Jerseys]

Forgiving is for fools. You just open the door for a person to shyt on you again.

 

[3rdWorld]

I get over shyt easily, especially if I see the person struggling in life.
Ill be blazing mad at first but I dont stay mad for long, I just gradually lose respect for the person to the point they look pitiful and sorry to me, then its 'whatever'..they can keep whatever they stole etc I dont care anymore..

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

i try to let them go. i haven't had a grudge in years. most of the people i have problems with are known a$$holes to everyone so

 

[Charlie Hustle]

Not caring about cutting ties with someone and hold a grudge are two different things. I rather enjoy purging people that are with the fukkery out of my life.

 

[MoonGoddess]

The closer the person the bigger my pride gets in my way. I can handle an associate fukking me over more then someone I trusted especially a close friend or family.

 

[BrehWyatt]

I'm hella petty, so...