How to Be Attractive Even When You’re Ugly

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You all always talk about making money as a way to get those Instagram models you want, but is that what will make you happy? Even with money... if you feel like you are universally ugly then find a woman that appreciates your innate attributes and stop thinking that showcasing what you have monetarily is a direct tunnel to what you really want. It won’t be. It’s a superficial pleasure.
Think about what will make you actually happy and not what will make you happy to brag about.
 

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the two parts that are most usefull....you incel ass blame my looks ass nikkas need to digest both of these points

Temporarily lower your standards, a little


Men with little dating experience often idolize the hottest women.

They put beauty on the highest pedestal. They obsess over Instagram models. They talk about wanting the most gorgeous girls at their school.

The problem is that the more attractive a woman is, the more male competition she has gunning for her. So she has more options and can be more selective.

If you want consistent opportunities with these women, you have to stand out amongst other men. It’s actually not that hard in the grand scheme of things, but if you’re new to this — you’ll have to put the work in.


Challenge your biases about women
I understand you’ve probably heard some variation of all this advice but you don’t take it to heart. If you’re like most “incel” guys I talk to, you have the toxic belief that:

Women will never truly love or desire an ugly guy. They’ll only stay with them for money, status, or the external things they offer. They will never have an active sex life with those men. And women will always be waiting to cheat when a hotter guy comes around or the gravy train runs dry.

I know for a fact that’s bullshyt. I know countless couples who shatter these false beliefs.

I agree with this. It's not a secret that the better somebody looks or the higher the "value" person might be (even though I personally believe we ALL have intrinsic value as human beings, but that's a different discussion), the more opportunities they have to choose what they want. It's like a rich man choosing a Rolls Royce over a 2004 Chevrolet Sedan. Nothing wrong with the Chevy Sedan at all, it's a nice whip, but... If you have the freedom and variety to choose, you're generally gonna go for something that has more to offer and what's more to your personal liking. Humans do this for literally everything, it's not exactly a shock that it would apply in dating as well. It's shallow, but... :manny:

And I've always noticed that incel dudes always want the women of the highest calibre, yet are aware that they don't bring much to the table and don't do anything at all to improve. That's why I think a lot of their complaints are weak because they're basically trying to get baskets from across the court when they can't do basic layups. Which I understand, most guys would love to have a beautiful lady on their arm, but she's gotta see some sort of value in you. Why don't they go for the average-looking girl, or somebody around their level? :patrice:Think about it. And let's say a super-attractive girl does fall for them, they wouldn't have the confidence to make it work anyway.

This is why people tell guys to be on their purpose. If you're working on something that you're devoting your life to, your mind's probably gonna be more focused on other things. Doesn't mean you're not gonna feel lonely or not want to date, but at least you have things in your life that take precedence. People pay attention to those who grind more than we think. You never know who's watching and might swoop in someday.

Also women most definitely fall in love with ugly dudes lmao. Just depends on what's ugly to them.

You all always talk about making money as a way to get those Instagram models you want, but is that what will make you happy? Even with money... if you feel like you are universally ugly then find a woman that appreciates your innate attributes and stop thinking that showcasing what you have monetarily is a direct tunnel to what you really want. It won’t be. It’s a superficial pleasure.
Think about what will make you actually happy and not what will make you happy to brag about.

Word. Probably since the dawn of time, this has been a thing where men have wanted women who are desirable to many others. IG models are just women who took enough selfies, knew how to edit their pictures, and had a decent looking body to rake in followers. They're not "better" than the girl you see in your University class or at the supermarket or even walking her dog at the park. I think money can be a great motivator, but many are forgetting that gold-digging is a phenomenon as well. Nothing wrong with wanting the IG models, as long as people are aware of what may come with all of that.

Social media is a trip, though. Instagram is a highlight reel, we never really see the full picture (no pun intended) or scope of what a person's life is really like. People see these feeds and get depressed because their life isn't as glamorous in comparison, but people lie all the time on social media. Those cars are probably rented, that big mansion probably has a "For Sale" sign in the yard and they were just cruising through the neighborhood, the chains are from some dropshipping website... All done to go impress other people, so the whole cycle is filled with unfulfilled people. You could think somebody on IG is the perfect partner, and they're the worst person to be with. You just never know. They say "don't judge a book by its cover", and it's true... But we do it anyway. Same shyt, it's just different avenue.
 

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Remember, what's ugly to you may not be ugly to her. There is no universal meter of attraction. I have seen guys get the girl I wanted but didn't get, even though I'm handsome gang. You may not be ugly...and chances are if you make yourself up and she likes you for you then you aren't ugly. Have you ever heard a man call his wife ugly?:what:
 

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I've seen quite a few ugly dudes with hot chicks out there.

I'd still say being socially inept is WAY worse than being an ugly breh.
 
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