You nikkas doin it wrong. Take it from me, I used to be a cheater and I grew gray hairs trying to keep secrets from a woman who's already like a fuccin detective. Afraid to leave your phone for a second? Afraid to take your lady somewhere? Thats no way for a man to live. I been on this open door policy shyt for a few years now and my quality of life has increased drastically. Just tell them what your doing, be real wit her about who you are, whether you just like you some new new or you like me and keep the same 2 or 3 females around just be real wit em, the way I see it by doing that you're either ridding yourself of a female who can't deal with the real you (which will always blow up in your face), or you're gonna gain a down ass chick who can handle that fact that you do you from time to time.