How to choose a wife

[Strapped]

How long is that?

I dont have that problem, i live with my wife and we have a child.

if she's good to you dawg ,just give her what she wants

 

[Mowgli]

if she's good to you dawg ,just give her what she wants

Tell that to your peers. Im out the game.

 

[DirtyMoney]

Based on your responses and reasoning, marriage is not for you

You gotta read between the sarcasm in some of the responses. What is the reasoning of a person looking to get married and how does it differ from how I have portrayed myself ?

 

[DirtyMoney]

you betta do right or she'll eventually leave dawg

That is a fact.. then i'll watch her happy like damn, coulda been me..

seems like you got a good one
dont mess it up breh

Everyone is saying this, Everyone said this about my last one too. Only 30 Breh's. But she can raise kids and clean the hell outta a house(&iron). Cooking game skrong too.. And she lets me hit even if we have argued or I've been out 2-3 days with the homies just AWOL and shyt.. And the puss.. OMG

 

[Mowgli]

That is a fact.. then i'll watch her happy like damn, coulda been me..


Everyone is saying this, Everyone said this about my last one too. Only 30 Breh's. But she can raise kids and clean the hell outta a house(&iron). Cooking game skrong too.. And she lets me hit even if we have argued or I've been out 2-3 days with the homies just AWOL and shyt.. And the puss.. OMG

30? Yea, its around that time. If shes not that pretty you better start scrambling for a better one. Your x is your x for a reason.

 

[feelosofer]

You gotta read between the sarcasm in some of the responses. What is the reasoning of a person looking to get married and how does it differ from how I have portrayed myself ?

I'm just saying, it seems you genuinely love and care for her, but you it seems like you're marrying her because it seems like the logical step. You have to think about does that person move you, does the day seem gray without her, does she punctuate your joy and ease your pain, and if she hurt you in the worst way would you work it out. Marriage is so much heavier than just living together, you two are connected in so many ways other than legally and financially. This is no small commitment. If you think you're ready though go for it.

 

[DirtyMoney]

30? Yea, its around that time. If shes not that pretty you better start scrambling for a better one. Your x is your x for a reason.

Yeah cos i moved to a diff state. SMH.

 

[DirtyMoney]

30? Yea, its around that time. If shes not that pretty you better start scrambling for a better one. Your x is your x for a reason.

Yeah cos i moved to a diff state. SMH.

I'm just saying, it seems you genuinely love and care for her, but you it seems like you're marrying her because it seems like the logical step. You have to think about does that person move you, does the day seem gray without her, does she punctuate your joy and ease your pain, and if she hurt you in the worst way would you work it out. Marriage is so much heavier than just living together, you two are connected in so many ways other than legally and financially. This is no small commitment. If you think you're ready though go for it.

Imma PM you cos you seem enlightened. I wake up thinking about the bread $$$ she fills the gaps on some days.. I've just grown fond of her cos i spend time with her.. Im not foreseeing marriage anywhere before 12 months of living together to see how that goes.. My side bishes prob gon break it all up

 

[Blessings]

Movin in together in 2 weeks (after 2 years of dating). I will prob wife her cos I know her 4 years, dated 2, her bodycount is under 10 and she ticks multiple boxes and her ass is PHAT....

We've both met each others families who are all happy for us to be together long term.

I feel that once the joint bank acct is open then its going that route.

that should be after marriage

 

[Brandon M.]

Do marriage counselling

Don't just marry someone because its the next thing to do.

What happens if she can't have kids?

What if you don't want kids?

Will she stay home if you have kids?

What happens if you lose your job will still stick around?

Can she cook clean is she loyal?

What's her upbringing like?

marriage counseling is a waste of time pre marriage breh

me and my girl did that shyt and we both was lying to the counselor the whole time

 

[Mowgli]

Yeah cos i moved to a diff state. SMH.

Imma PM you cos you seem enlightened. I wake up thinking about the bread $$$ she fills the gaps on some days.. I've just grown fond of her cos i spend time with her.. Im not foreseeing marriage anywhere before 12 months of living together to see how that goes.. My side bishes prob gon break it all up

o boy. Another bitter woman gonna be on the market. You with the globe cause you're used to her. That wears off after a while.

Maybe you just don't want anything serious and sabotage your relationships before it gets too close to that realm commitment.

You said you had a girl you loved but left her to move to another state.

Now you gotta girl that's wife able butn you think in about your x and will let side pieces fukk it all up. You don't love this girl like that

 

[MJ Freedom]

SMH @ me and my girl breaking up right after Christmas over some bullshyt I did, and her checking off damn near every statement in all of these checklists on here. Fukk me.

 

[MikelArteta]

Looks fade

No, thank god.

Yup, but the issue is my ex was badder and i miss that bish.. Its holdin me back..

 

[sayyestothis]

No, thank god.

Yup, but the issue is my ex was badder and i miss that bish.. Its holdin me back..

Don't do it!!!!!^^^^ if you have thoughts bout an ex already and yall not even married yet. Don't do it!

 

[William F. Russell]

I'll say it again: Culinary arts school parking lot is the safest bet

Wisdom.