How to deal with college friends?

[Bonk]

Just find a common ground (things you have in common with them) and build your friendship on that since you don’t want to cut them off.

Not everyone in your friendship group would be like you or have the same background as you. You just need to find a balance and know what your interactions would be about.

 

[Oldschooler]

How is thecoli supposed to guide you when we don't really know why you feel this way. Wtf you mean by 'soft' breh this aint the streets. I got lots of friends who are nikka nerds and are not well rounded. I got friends still playing nintendo at over 40 years old. I got friends who are cheaper than cheap. Dudes really exposing themselves on here showing no loyalty or love. You gotta give to receive.

 

[Dreamchaser]

How is thecoli supposed to guide you when we don't really know why you feel this way. Wtf you mean by 'soft' breh this aint the streets. I got lots of friends who are nikka nerds and are not well rounded. I got friends still playing nintendo at over 40 years old. I got friends who are cheaper than cheap. Dudes really exposing themselves on here showing no loyalty or love. You gotta give to receive.

What I mean by soft is someone who isn't comfortable with themselves as an adult.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

I'm an old breh,(graduated college in 2003) and my true college friends became family. But the foundation of friendship back in college wasnt on some superficial shyt.

we bonded as brehs at a PWI/Ivy trying to make it in this world. Very few of the non-black friends I made in college, are more than just associates now.

OP, your "friendships" shouldnt be so full of tension. Man up, have a convo and resolve the issues or just chuck the deuce and cut contact.