How to distinguish between flirting and friendly

Asicz

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The answer to your question:wow:

Don't fukking post on here again until you read it.
 

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The question I was always ask myself when i contemplate asking the cute cashier for her number at a restaurant i go to often after class:mjcry:
may just say "fukk it" and do it anyway to not live wondering but im worried how awkward it would be since its one of my favorite spots to eat
Life's predicaments :sadcam:
 

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Body language might be your only hope...


Eye contact

Facing body directly towards you

Smiles/laughs with eye contact

Playing with hair (if she got any) or a body part or jewelry

Mirroring body language

Getting in your space

Etc...


Kinda hard with just random ppl but easier with people you've known for awhile imo
 

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:francis: hello coli fam hope all is well with you beautiful and amazing people anyway y’all seen the title and know what the fukk is goin on lol but frfr does this ability come with age and time and experience or are there cheats to this shyt. Females are complicated sometimes and a nikka can misread signals or get thrown off by some etc. I know that watching her body language is a good tool but is that all, like are there certain questions u can ask to know or wld just shootin the shyt and goin for the line be the best option. Guess this was inspired by the approach thread and the oblivious to advances thread

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If a woman is just being nice and welcoming to you I wouldn’t assume it’s because she’s attracted. I just go based off of non-verbal cues because most of them are not going to tell you that they want you. However, if you can find that one that is really into you it’ll happen :mjgrin:.


I’ve been confused too before though fwiend...no sign of attraction but they like me and multiple signs of attraction but they don’t :francis:.
 

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It's depended on the nature of the person you are talking to and the setting. Some broads have that flirty energy, but that's their normal. And there are women who can't flirt/think the little things that they do are flirting. If you keep talking and pay attention, you'll eventually find out, assuming you know cues
 

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Body language might be your only hope...


Eye contact

Facing body directly towards you

Smiles/laughs with eye contact

Playing with hair (if she got any) or a body part or jewelry

Mirroring body language

Getting in your space

Etc...


Kinda hard with just random ppl but easier with people you've known for awhile imo

I would say this isnt always true but damn is it CLOSE

Most recent times i remember was a couple days ago in line at a store two cac women in front of me and one of them just HAD to turn to face me with her WHOLE Body, as theyre talking to the cashier, i like to avoid convos so i avoided looking at the cashier or them (you can still feel her LOOKING)


Another time im in an elavator at a Hospital and another PAWG (looked like a nurse or doctor) came in, im on my phone, we are side by side but im further, i see out the side of my eye shes semi smiling while looking at me

When women like you its like they try to get you to conversate in a weird way :francis:

Also they become really nice, jokey with you, maybe they flirting and i cant read it but


Reminds me again of the one time in HS i caught this girl giving me bedroom eyes while smiling like she was hypnotized as she walked by me, when i looked at her she

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Like she was trying to snap out of spell :mjlol:, her eyes were looking all over the place, you never know whos really feeling you and i only saw this girl a few times the whole year.

Also once had this other girl walk close to my chest, almost stepping on my shoes giving me deep eye contact, that was biggest L because she pretty much let me know she WANTED me, but nah, i didnt go after her....some mixed girl.



Once a group of girls was touching my hair saying its so curly, but they werent attractive.
 
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