How to Find A LONG-TERM Partner

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:childplease:Is it some sort of status thing to have one? Don't go actively looking for one. If you're just getting ready to graduate, work on improving yourself. The right person will probably come along when you aren't looking.
 

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Make yourself look attractive then go out to places you like.

I'ts not about attracting random attention. BTW though, it seems like it's only older men or people I'm not actually that attracted to that have the guts to approach. A lot of young, cute guys have little to no guts and it's so pathetic, an immediate turn off. The ones who do though give off a strong :shaq: :noah:vibe so I'm cautious. Best case scenario, I envy people who fall in love with long time childhood friends and don't have to play the "game".

Guys hollering online gives me the creeps to be honest. Reminds me of this

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I'ts not about attracting random attention. BTW though, it seems like it's only older men or people I'm not actually that attracted to that have the guts to approach. A lot of young, cute guys have little to no guts and it's so pathetic, an immediate turn off. The ones who do though give off a strong :shaq: :noah:vibe so I'm cautious. Best case scenario, I envy people who fall in love with long time childhood friends and don't have to play the "game".

Guys hollering online gives me the creeps to be honest. Reminds me of this

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Make up your mind:stopitslime:
 

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I'ts not about attracting random attention. BTW though, it seems like it's only older men or people I'm not actually that attracted to that have the guts to approach. A lot of young, cute guys have little to no guts and it's so pathetic, an immediate turn off. The ones who do though give off a strong :shaq: :noah:vibe so I'm cautious. Best case scenario, I envy people who fall in love with long time childhood friends and don't have to play the "game".

Guys hollering online gives me the creeps to be honest. Reminds me of this

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So people who ain't your type not approaching...do you ever approach the ones who are yourself?
 

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Watching this video got me thinking, how did or do you intend to meet a potential partner (not just for a hook up / casual dating but a long-term maybe permanent thing). In this day and age where technology is everything, everyone seems to be on a quick-paced schedule and most guys trying to holla harboring demonic motives.

Graduating from college soon and I'm thinking, how will I cope in the real world especially when ones personality is more on the introverted side.
If you don't have prospects now you're fukking done.
 

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Laundromat, public library, women centric walks ( Beast cancer walk, domestic violence walks etc.)
Beyonce concerts, hell any R&B singers concerts( if your in BW), yoga class, pottery class,cooking classes, If you want to meet a nice looking female stores like nemien marcus and saks Starbucks and finally LSA ( I know I know but you'll be surprised they have some attractive looking women and to be totally honest LSA and Coli are well yoked no matter who hard y'all each to distant themselves.)

Bonus : Hang around the make up counters.
 

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:childplease:Is it some sort of status thing to have one? Don't go actively looking for one. If you're just getting ready to graduate, work on improving yourself. The right person will probably come along when you aren't looking.
Will be 21 by the time I graduate so no rush :whoa:.

Make up your mind:stopitslime:
When last have you been in college though... A lot of guys my age are basically horndogs or at least they act like it.
I've seen the replies on Coli threads ---> (Quick lil gems on dealing with women thread....). Can't trust these hoes :huhldup:.

So people who are your type not approaching...do you ever approach the ones who are yourself?
No.

Laundromat, public library, women centric walks ( Beast cancer walk, domestic violence walks etc.)
Beyonce concerts, hell any R&B singers concerts( if your in BW), yoga class, pottery class,cooking classes, If you want to meet a nice looking female stores like nemien marcus and saks Starbucks and finally LSA ( I know I know but you'll be surprised they have some attractive looking women and to be totally honest LSA and Coli are well yoked no matter who hard y'all each to distant themselves.)

Bonus : Hang around the make up counters.
I'm female though
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@INTP you also need to approach or show interest to guys. No respectable man is gonna try to talk to you if you not showing interest, dudes with real goals and motives aren't gonna waste their time
 

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I think folks are to picky nowadays that goes for men and women alike.
No one is willing to build with one another they just want the finished product.
 
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