How to go to a bar alone with confidence

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The problem with all of these gentlemen blogs is all of their advice assumes the world is still the way it was during the 1960s .

like dog That bartender ain’t trying to talk to you either, they just want to get their tips
Extactly. They are also setting up their social awkward viewers up for failure. The type of person confident and smooth enough to hit a bar alone and engage the bartender in interesting conversation doesn’t need a how to video :heh: What’s going to happen is some shy dusty lame looking cat is going to get hit with the :dahell::scusthov::camby: from the bartender and other normal folks who came with other people and their confidence will forever be shattered.
 

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Extactly. They are also setting up their social awkward viewers up for failure. The type of person confident and smooth enough to hit a bar alone and engage the bartender in interesting conversation doesn’t need a how to video :heh: What’s going to happen is some shy dusty lame looking cat is going to get hit with the :dahell::scusthov::camby: from the bartender and other normal folks who came with other people and their confidence will forever be shattered.

well yeah but that is the vast vast majority of that lane of content. How to videos. How to text a woman. How to get her to go out with you. How to sleep wioth someone the first date. I'm pretty well practiced and smooth, but here and there I'll read some posts or whatever, in a spiral moment, reading some weird shyt like "will she text me back:, and I'll see the content being pushed

and realizing someone reading that and trying to apply it real life -without the looks- without the experience- is going to look sick lol
 
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