How to let down a girl easy?

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I got a good friend that is hinting on forming a relationship. I see her as a sister more than a lover. We have hooked up a few times (just kissing) but that was mostly because we were drunk as fukk and drinking alone.

she's good looking, banging body, always got guys wanting to hit her, and that's one reason why i'm hesitant, the other is that she is weak emotionally and always needs someone to lift her up.

that's why i need to let her down easy cause i want to keep her as a good friend, but still have boundaries.
 
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tell her it's not her it's you and that
she deserves somebody that's ready to settle down.
she'll respect you and leave the
door cracked for you to tap them draws later in life.








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Oh now you wanna give us context but you aint come up off those flaws?
tell her it's not her it's you and that
she deserves somebody that's ready to settle down.
she'll respect you and leave the
door cracked for you to tap them draws later in life.








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last time I did this I got cussed out via text. multiple back to back ones


there is no easy way, do what you gotta do
 

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I got a good friend that is hinting on forming a relationship. I see her as a sister more than a lover. We have hooked up a few times (just kissing) but that was mostly because we were drunk as fukk and drinking alone.

she's good looking, banging body, always got guys wanting to hit her, and that's one reason why i'm hesitant, the other is that she is weak emotionally and always needs someone to lift her up.

that's why i need to let her down easy cause i want to keep her as a good friend, but still have boundaries.
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If all she needs is a lift me up from time to time she doesn't sound bad. Sounds normal, unless she goes into extreme "No one loves me and I want to kill myself." mode often

Of course dudes are going to be hitting on an attractive girl, how is that a negative?

But if your gonna shove her into the "friend zone" you should already know how that shyt goes. It'll never be the same friendship.
 
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Oh now you wanna give us context but you aint come up off those flaws?


last time I did this I got cussed out via text. multiple back to back ones


there is no easy way, do what you gotta do



then you dodged a damn bullet because
more than anything a woman wants to leave
a situation with her ego and self worth in tact.
how long ago was it because after she gets
over what she thought was rejection she's gonna
realize that it wasnt a diss and respect you for it.
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