How to let down a girl easy?

Joined
May 2, 2012
Messages
6,167
Reputation
-11,094
Daps
13,958
Reppin
123
So you lead her on...

Then want to drop everything?


:francis: You nikkas, man I swear

where did i say that i lead her on. it all started as friends, and we are still friends. if she caught feelings, how am i to blame?

If all she needs is a lift me up from time to time she doesn't sound bad. Sounds normal, unless she goes into extreme "No one loves me and I want to kill myself." mode often

Of course dudes are going to be hitting on an attractive girl, how is that a negative?

But if your gonna shove her into the "friend zone" you should already know how that shyt goes. It'll never be the same friendship.

she needs lift me up every day and all the time. she's very confident on the outside, tries to portray this fearless independent woman, but on the inside, she is insecure as fukk and always has complains.

and the thing about other guys is that she is extremely flirty, like will flirt with literally any guy that tries to come her way, and plays with them. so it definitely is a negative.
 

Big Blue

Superstar
Joined
Sep 26, 2012
Messages
19,742
Reputation
1,000
Daps
51,301
Reppin
Brooklyn
I got a good friend that is hinting on forming a relationship. I see her as a sister more than a lover. We have hooked up a few times (just kissing) but that was mostly because we were drunk as fukk and drinking alone.

she's good looking, banging body, always got guys wanting to hit her, and that's one reason why i'm hesitant, the other is that she is weak emotionally and always needs someone to lift her up.

that's why i need to let her down easy cause i want to keep her as a good friend, but still have boundaries.
Really breh????
 

Afro

Student of life
Supporter
Joined
Feb 8, 2016
Messages
14,553
Reputation
7,359
Daps
57,699
where did i say that i lead her on. it all started as friends, and we are still friends. if she caught feelings, how am i to blame?



she needs lift me up every day and all the time. she's very confident on the outside, tries to portray this fearless independent woman, but on the inside, she is insecure as fukk and always has complains.

and the thing about other guys is that she is extremely flirty, like will flirt with literally any guy that tries to come her way, and plays with them. so it definitely is a negative.

Get it, probably has daddy issues yea? I wouldn't think to wife this girl up at all, but is she part of your circle? If so, you messed up.

Making out with her (drunk or not) is putting thoughts in her head of something more. She one that needs constant validation, never good.
 

Kenny West

Veteran
Joined
May 29, 2012
Messages
25,423
Reputation
6,341
Daps
94,275
Reppin
NULL
then you dodged a damn bullet because
more than anything a woman wants to leave
a situation with her ego and self worth in tact.
how long ago was it because after she gets
over what she thought is rejection she's gonna
realize that it wasnt a diss and respect you for it.
wat6rr.jpg

It was back in november. and yeah that bytch crazy.


she actually hit me up a week ago to humble brag on finding a dude. I hit her back with a "good for you". She replied with more humblebrag and took a parting shot so I didn't reply. Hours later (near midnight) she texted again on some "so how are things going for you":francis:

im not re-opening pandoras box
 
Joined
May 2, 2012
Messages
6,167
Reputation
-11,094
Daps
13,958
Reppin
123
Get it, probably has daddy issues yea? I wouldn't think to wife this girl up at all, but is she part of your circle? If so, you messed up.

Making out with her (drunk or not) is putting thoughts in her head of something more. She one that needs constant validation, never good.

that's basically it.
 

QuavoFlow

Superstar
Joined
Sep 10, 2015
Messages
7,943
Reputation
4,470
Daps
35,692
I got a good friend that is hinting on forming a relationship. I see her as a sister more than a lover. We have hooked up a few times (just kissing) but that was mostly because we were drunk as fukk and drinking alone.

she's good looking, banging body, always got guys wanting to hit her, and that's one reason why i'm hesitant, the other is that she is weak emotionally and always needs someone to lift her up.

that's why i need to let her down easy cause i want to keep her as a good friend, but still have boundaries.

:what:why dont yu just fukk her if she bad nikka
:mindblown:
 

ridedolo

Veteran
Supporter
Joined
Sep 2, 2014
Messages
17,205
Reputation
5,377
Daps
86,806
just do it before ya'll have sex.
she'll still hate you, but it'll be less intense. :yeshrug:
 
Top