Ozymandeas
Veteran
I knew it was gonna be her 
Saw her on TikTok a few days ago.
LOL at saying "I loved my husband, that's how".
Saw her on TikTok a few days ago.LOL at saying "I loved my husband, that's how".
"How to Marry and Become a Housewife" big mad in the comments
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I'm back sukkasssss
Idk why people say shyt like this. What works for you probably won't work for the next person. It's weird.
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she's a team player
you can see who ain't going in the comments
hoes don't want to be comfortable safe & well rested at home
hoes wanna get ran out in the streets stressed & calling it a good time
happy women need to stay private & hide their life away for their own sake
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you can see who ain't going in the comments
hoes don't want to be comfortable safe & well rested at home
hoes wanna get ran out in the streets stressed & calling it a good time
happy women need to stay private & hide their life away for their own sake
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As a brown/dark skinned woman who has consistently worked in medical offices since college- she isn’t lying. This is a cheat code for any young attractive woman. Whether it’s the doctor or patients. I didn’t even realize what a goldmine my field was because it was constant. I didn’t really take advantage because I didn’t think it was professional, but the women who are less modest in that regard DEFINITELY chose and retired LOL
Hell, even someone I worked with recently just said “Man, I’m kind of done with working”. Got engaged to a guy a literally stopped coming to work. She popped in and said “Yea, this is great. You have to get out of here”.
Absolute cheat code.
Hell, even someone I worked with recently just said “Man, I’m kind of done with working”. Got engaged to a guy a literally stopped coming to work. She popped in and said “Yea, this is great. You have to get out of here”.
Absolute cheat code.
I saw this all the time at several different companies. Women (mostly white) would get hired on straight out of college and married in no less than 2 years.
And they would really push their husbands to move up the Corporate ladder quickly. These dudes didn't get much leisure time at all. Because their new wives we're always scheming on acquiring a much better car, house etc. Failure was not an option for these guys or Divorce was threatened. Seen it too many times the ruthless of it all.
Yep. I mean, White girls are taught the game by their mothers/it’s just marriage culture. But if you’re an attractive Black woman the men are choosing. Hell, an older brotha who I realized is quite successful in the IT field was choosing recently and I thought I was looking bad that day
The doctor was like “Hey, you need to lock him down”. 
The White men try it too. Whenever a random white guy starts complimenting my hair (natural or braids) I realize what’s coming next. Even had one guy start randomly talking to me about how he took over his mother’s bills, etc. I was like “Why is this white man telling me this?”; and then the light bulb went off.
she really from a KS show?
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Yep. I mean, White girls are taught the game by their mothers/it’s just marriage culture. But if you’re an attractive Black woman the men are choosing. Hell, an older brotha who I realized is quite successful in the IT field was choosing recently and I thought I was looking bad that day
The White men try it too. Whenever a random white guy starts complimenting my hair (natural or braids) I realize what’s coming next. Even had one guy start randomly talking to me about how he took over his mother’s bills, etc. I was like “Why is this white man telling me this?”; and then the light bulb went off.
& you ain’t secure the bag sis?
i'm sure she was criticized by a bunch of single fat borderline-overweight throwaways with nothing better to do on that day 
i haven't read the comments yet tho
i haven't read the comments yet thoFirst I’d ask him what lifestyle he wants. Then depending on his personality, I’d tell him to take ego, pride, mindgames and set them aside. Choose a chick that loves you. Is intelligent and has a good heart and has proven her loyalty and honesty to him. Check her family history. Vet her thoroughly. She should be flexible.What advise would you give your son if in the same situation? His wife doesn't want to work and be a stay at home mom?
And she should be accomplished career wise, to be able to enter the workforce and contribute and willing to do so, so that he doesn’t have to die on his feet working. She should match his hustle…ESPECIALLY as a housewife.
I’d tell him if he meets a woman like that, he shouldn’t be an incelish, pseudo-autistic a$$hole who expects her to give her all, while also putting up with his cheating, disrespect, wack sex game, arrogance just b:c he thinks he’s superior for having a dikk. I’d tell him he needs to be a man worthy of that kind of woman and that bytching about being a prize and neck-yapping about submission while complaining about women online won’t cut it. He’ll only meet quality women on his own road to building himself to be of quality. Lastly, I’d make sure he is properly socialized with a wide variety of people from different walks of life. Social media shouldn’t be his primary means of human interaction, much less his primary source of interaction with the opposite sex. I would tell him to restrict access to online echo chambers and soul-killing internet tropes and trolls. Let him know that technology is meant to supplement authentic human interaction, not supplant it. Tell him that porn is not a guide for how to please a woman and that the side effects of online medications (e.g. red, black pills) is bitterness, depression, dry dikkism and delusion.
He needs to focus is energy on building himself up instead of worrying about women and when he is confident, successful and enjoyable to be around, instead of broke, arrogant, bitter or just weird/creepy, that increases his chances of meeting like-minded, healthy sane partners.
And I’d tell him that looks and attraction matters b/c if he picks somebody that makes his dikk wanna run and hide, it ain’t gon work no matter how “nice” she is. But I’d also tell him that doesn’t mean a chick needs to look like a perfect dime. To get somebody compatible that he can spend time with…and not wanna two-hand choke at the end of the day. But he won’t find her if he busy reducing a whole ass human being to a 1-10 number scale like a pseudo-autistic little fukk. Instead he should touch grass and fully interact with people b/c they aren’t quantifiable and sometimes who you think looks good, can end up annoying you. Meanwhile, somebody less attractive can sometimes end up turning you on and out.
Keep it strapped. Be honest. Don’t lie. Only stick yo dikk in quality you wouldn’t mind reproducing with. Don’t dog a chick out, but don’t be a Simp for a big butt and a smile. Demand reciprocity without taking her for granted.
Well I wasn’t paying attention to the White men, but seeing how things go with the aforementioned brotha& you ain’t secure the bag sis?
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Well I wasn’t paying attention to the White men, but seeing how things go with the aforementioned brotha
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I could barely understand what she was saying at first lol. I guess the gist of it is alright but there were a few crazy statements in there. You can't be treating your relationship as just a job and submitting to your “boss” 
It should be about companionship first and foremost. With these traditional marriage lifestyles are that this is not for everybody and the people that preach this alot don't want to fully commit it (men still expecting 50/50 and not pay for everything and women wanting more help with housework and care activities and wanting to do more than just being a housewife ) it just seems very pointless and very limiting relationship for no real reason but if that's what people want to do go ahead but understand this comes with risks especially for women if they don't have their own stream of income (divorce or spouse death) and higher chance of domestic abuse. it's not inherently bad just be smart about what you're doing and think ahead just like everything else.
It should be about companionship first and foremost. With these traditional marriage lifestyles are that this is not for everybody and the people that preach this alot don't want to fully commit it (men still expecting 50/50 and not pay for everything and women wanting more help with housework and care activities and wanting to do more than just being a housewife ) it just seems very pointless and very limiting relationship for no real reason but if that's what people want to do go ahead but understand this comes with risks especially for women if they don't have their own stream of income (divorce or spouse death) and higher chance of domestic abuse. it's not inherently bad just be smart about what you're doing and think ahead just like everything else.