Today's lesson is know your role, play your position.
The more you have the easier it gets not only your option of women but the Quality of women you get raise as well.
Things your born with for starters are pluses
1). Height
2). Build
3).handsome
4).charisma /swagg
5). Trust, belief, character
6).Common sense
Pluses that can be learned or acquired.
1).money
2).build (in shape/muscular)
3).Education
4).belief
The more of these you have the more women you'll attract, and the QUALITY of women will come as well
If your out for Instagram g2irl you could probably nail her with
1).money
2).build
3).hansome
4). Charismatic/swagg
A good combination of any 2 could land you Instagram girl.
But let's just say you want a women that looks like a Instagram girl but has a good job with common sense.
That would probably take a combination like
1).Common sense
2). Build
3). Handsome
4).trust, belief
That kind of girl is going to want someone that they can believe in and has potential which falls under trust, also most women who are 9's and above want a guy who is handsome an built BUT women will settle for one or the other. If your not handsome then you have to be built or vice versa, if your not handsome or built you'll probably need alot of money to compensate.
Guys put to much on (swagg/charisma) l mean yes if you have it, its like a cheat code but if you don't it's not the end of the world you can still pull QUALITY women If you play your position.
Where do I stand? If I use myself as a example here is where I was mid 23-27 years old
1).Common sense
2).education (was in college and worked a full time job).
3).handsome (brown skin with green, nice hair,)
4)built ( placed top 10 in every bodybuilding show I entered)
5).belief, trust ( whoever I was with believed in my potential because I worked and went to college, parents are well off, and have no baggage like a pre-marriage child or jail record or any kind of drug use, I was very focused an determined to get where I wanted and get what I wanted.
Now did I have swagg, to small extent yes, but I like to move in the shadow and charismatic people like the spolight.
Do I have height I'm 5"11 so I'm far from short but I'm not in tall 6'2 plus size that women love.
Money wise, back then my money game wasn't popping but I knew how to work smart and hard when I have too and bought my first house at 27yrs old. So I knew how to hustle (legally)
So I'm not perfect an their plenty to of thing last that I didn't have but the combination of things I did have allowed me pull 10's, I went on alot of dates with 8's an 9's an these ladies weren't just beautiful they educated,some had 6 figure salaries, some were models, others had great potential and still finding their way like me.
It would be great if we all hand 6 figure jobs, 6'2 at 220 10%bf, with super swagg looking like boriss or morris shamar out there and I'm sure there's a small amount of men around just like that but that's such a small amount and the population of women is so great your set up win.
You can always get education or learn a trade =better job =more money
If your not handsome you can always hit the gym and get your body right, you can change!
Making these changes will get you one step closer to finding the right women.