How To Pick Up A Girl When She's Working?

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I've never really tried to get at a girl that was working at like a restatraunt. This new spot opened and I was hitting it off with the counter girl but didn't want to make a move with her boss there and shyt. How do you get a girls number when she's at work surrounded by coworkers? Just say fukk it and go for it?
 

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flirt, ask what she likes to do, then ask her out. Food places are chill they don't usually care about stuff like that. I crack at girls in front of my manager daily.
 

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she was proably just being friendly because it's her job
I was gonna say this !

You gotta be extra sure to shoot your shot .

I use to work at a grocery store when I was 16. Learned very quick what flirting and being nice is .
This is kinda why I'm oblivious to advances now a days .


Y'all don't realize they interact with a lot of people daily and they just doing their jobs .

Out of all the men they see they might be attracted to 1% and maybe 0.2% have a chance unless they are well u know :mjpls: outchea .
 
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just shoot your shot. ask what she do when she get off if she wants to hang etc get her number give her yours on a receipt etc boss don't care. they just see you as a simp/new customer who gon be in the restaurant all the time trying to get the draws :russ:
the hardest is hollerin at a cashier during a busy time with a line forming behind you :whew: that's some speed pimpin right there. gettin them digits by the time they done baggin your groceries
 

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Never swing at the first pitch,if she rejects you it's gonna be awkward.Besides it's Mickey D's I'm sure she will be down to kick it.
 

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she was proably just being friendly because it's her job
Thanks for adding something constructive to my thread
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I asked out a girl that worked at my gym front desk lol

I waited until she was alone and did it. If there's always someone around then write your info on a piece of paper.
That's the problem the place is small so there was like all employees around and the manager. Just feel like it would of been awkawrd for everyone if I made a move in front of everyone. I can talk to girls thats not the problem just the situation and locaiton.
 

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That's the problem the place is small so there was like all employees around and the manager. Just feel like it would of been awkawrd for everyone if I made a move in front of everyone. I can talk to girls thats not the problem just the situation and locaiton.

fukk that. unless it's a place you go often then don't worry bout all that. just go for it. her manager ain't gon get mad over you sliding her your info. aint like you taking her outside away from her duties and spittin at her
 

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I've never really tried to get at a girl that was working at like a restatraunt. This new spot opened and I was hitting it off with the counter girl but didn't want to make a move with her boss there and shyt. How do you get a girls number when she's at work surrounded by coworkers? Just say fukk it and go for it?

Yes that's the way to do it.

If she says no :yeshrug: but you know where she works and you can avoid her or bring a new honey in there another time on some petty shyt lol

If she says yes then you grab her digits and you good :manny:

One bit of advice I can tell you is that I always preface the close with a compliment...

"I normally wouldn't ask out a woman while she's trying to work but there's no way I could pass YOU up"

have her like :krs: ...usually that flattery shyt works
 

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fukk that. unless it's a place you go often then don't worry bout all that. just go for it. her manager ain't gon get mad over you sliding her your info. aint like you taking her outside away from her duties and spittin at her
Yea I might stop in next week or something. I'm not scared to shoot my shot, just never good with picking up a girl at her work.
 

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You gotta be out there more often to know when a chick feeling you or if she's being nice. Case in point:
I used to go to this Whole Foods near my old job and I noticed there was this chick that would always be looking at me. Everytime I'd come in there she'd be smiling and when ringing me up trying to start up a convo. She was beautiful. She looked EXACTLY like that dark skin chick from Girlfriends:
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So anyway I wanted to get her number but I was scared(I was like 18) so I forgot what happened but I think I found her on Myspace. I hit her up and got her number there. Nothing came out of it as I had a girl at the time.

Another time that SAME whole foods had this other haitian chick that'd be checkin me out and blatantly asking me if I needed any help. She'd crack a big smile when she saw me. Same thing, I had a girl. Hell, she was LIVING with my girlfriend at the time :skip:.

Most recently I was in a Trader Joes and this light skin chick was brooming the floor and i pointed her to some spilled pasta near me and then she just looked at me and complimented me on my hair. She was like "I like your braids :smile:" *Has dreads*

Me: :lupe:

Her: :troll: No I'm just playing I always do that with my sister haha.

Me: :whew: Oh okay *chit chat*

She's telling me my hair looks nice and how long i've had dreads and If I would cut em for a job etc etc. she had dreads too. Nothing happened as i was just there to pick up some stuff but I felt like if she wasn't interested, she wouldn't have went off into a conversation about hair and complimenting me.

If a girl is going out her way to talk to you and help you and she's just talking and talking and not about anything store related, she's probably interested. It's happened so many times to me but I always was doubting it even though other people with me told me "Yo she feelin you."
 

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@Fatboi1 im not scared of being rejected and I realize she's working so she gotta be nice to customers. I know the difference between being nice and looking at me like she wants the d. Either way ill shoot my shot.
 
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