How to respond to a hater at work (the only other black dude smh)

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I had this happen to me at work. The best thing you can do is nothing; let him dig himself into the ground. Making fun of someone is harassment; you have to play chess because he's playing checkers. Stay on top of your work because you have a house nikka running black and saying masta masta that don field nikka aint doing his work. White people know that c00ns can not be trusted because if you can stab your own race in
the back you will do anything.

Keep calm and keep acting the same way you did before he got there; don't retaliate back because both of yall will be fired you know the angry black man. Like what my mentor said to me be like a duck. When you see a duck it look all calm on the top; but at the bottom that motherfukker is paddling like crazy. Stay calm, get your work done and make sure your projects are complete.
 

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Just confront the dude and find out what's up. Is there a promotion or something that's coming up? Last thing you want to do is stoop to his level and start bickering. It just makes you both look bad. At the same time, stay on top of your stuff. He may have dropped a dime on you, but he wasn't lying. It's a bytch move on his part, but I guarantee your supervisors will take notice of your lack of production regardless of whether or not he ratted you out.

:salute:

Yeah I feel like this is the best course of action. I need and to stay on top of my game but it's just distracting having someone try to screw you over when that person is "supposed" to be your ally
 

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U gotta grab ya nuts and stop looking weak. Most corporate jobs I've had I've always had hating pieces of shyts being that I'm so young but do a great job and get paid more than most people that been there for years. I had this cac Russian bytch who HATED that I was above her and she would constantly try to point out my mistakes in front of the ENTIRE office, what I do? Start doing the same to her :shaq: "Yuliya?:what:wheres the cotdamn signature from this doctor's office that I gave u two weeks ago?? :mindblown:"
Her: um um um, wait it's ummm...
Me: u know what? It's fine, I'll do it :stopitslime:
 

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I stopped reading after the first sentence..

I never hang out with co workers.. call me shallow or unfriendly, but im not putting none of my information out there.. cause that shyt get passed around the office quickly..

Keep to yourself and just say hi and bye
 

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smh @ u hanging out with dude

Breh, when you're the only black dude in the office it gets old. I see another black dude come in and I'm like :gladbron:

But yeah don't trust people at work.
 

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The same shyt happens to me on here, some lame autistic faggit always tries to sneak diss me, but my status is to godly to be tainted. I just ignore his obvious cries for my attention and let him be his own downfall.
 

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Breh, when you're the only black dude in the office it gets old. I see another black dude come in and I'm like :gladbron:

But yeah don't trust people at work.
i understand keep them feelings under wrap nikkas fake
u were like:gladbron:
he was like:sas2:
hate to see good people get screwed over keep your distance from that nikka
 

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I had some a problem with some people like that at work. I just pushed myself harder and made sure any project that involved them was trump tight. Disconnected myself from them socially.
if he wants to compete with you, let him.

There is supposed to be an understanding among coworkers that you need them to do xyz so you aren't put in a position to put them on blast, giving them an opportunity to clean up their shyt. If he's gunning for your position hen wants to compete with you. If he's gunning to be your boss, he wants to compete with you. I say let him because I doubt he's going to stop. This is the corporate world.



Many times people like that are not on top of their shyt and resort to being a snitch to get the points their actual work doesn't garner them. He will destroy himself eventually and you'll be in the cut like

:sas2:when he comes asking for a lifeline
 
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