How/where do I make more like minded friends?

[Rozay Oro]

Love my brehs and we laugh a lot with jokes and roasting but they really living a second childhood. Just gaming and getting lit after work. Will still chill and be there for my brehs but I been done getting lit. I'm a fall back a bit, just have a different mindset.

I even made some good friends with folks from my job. Joke around too. They're a bit younger, so I just see myself in them. Wide eyed optimistic brehs.

I don't look like I'm in my early 20s but I'm starting to feel the disconnect in music, memes, etc. One of my brehs having a baby shower with his girl next weekend. They already chose a name.

Maybe I'm having a pre quater life crisis. I'm happy and at peace but I have to be honest with myself. I wasted too much of my early adulthood. It's not about money, I literally don't want more possessions. Cop some new shoes recently because I actually needed them.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Bump

 

[97Pac]

You sound depressed breh. Start eating healthier and hitting the gym

 

[BezO]

Go do what you like to do. The folks there will have at least that in common with you.

Then go do something else you like to do. The folks there...

 

[Pazzy]

As long as they're good to you, arent dragging you down, not toxic, have accepted you for who you really are, not influencing you in bad ways and shown that they got your back whether you're at your high or your low then what's the problem.

 

[Rozay Oro]

You sound depressed breh. Start eating healthier and hitting the gym

I used to be depressed for the longest but I'm not. I'm happy but I need friends who are more active so to speak. Love my brehs but I'm feeling stagnant doing the same thing.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Go do what you like to do. The folks there will have at least that in common with you.

Then go do something else you like to do. The folks there...

I guess I'll try that

 

[Mindfield333]

Try meet ups in your city for things you’re into. I personally haven’t tried it but I would if a move to a whole new city

 

[skeetsinternal]

I always say real recognize real. I don't think you can "make" like minded friends they just manifest themselves. Like minded also doesn't mean that they agree with everything you say or do either

 

[Rozay Oro]

As long as they're good to you, arent dragging you down, not toxic, have accepted you for who you really are, not influencing you in bad ways and shown that they got your back whether you're at your high or your low then what's the problem.

The problem is I'm bored with their contentment. fukk blunts and doing nothing

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

IF YOU WANT TO FIND LIKE MINDED PEOPLE JUST DO SOMETHING SATISFYING FOR YOURSELF. FIND A HOBBY OF SOME SORT THAT COMPLIMENTS YOU. OTHER PEOPLE WHO DO THE SAME WILL EVENTUALLY CROSS PATHS WITH YOU. IT REALLY HELPS WHEN YOU WORK IN A FIELD THAT YOU TRULY ENJOY. YOUR COLLEAGUES BECOME YOUR CIRCLE ON SOME LEVEL AND YOU GET TO MEET THE TYPE OF PEOPLE YOU ENJOY BEING AROUND.

ITS HARDER AS A BLACK MAN BECAUSE WE HAVE THIS LOVE/HATE RELATIONSHIP WITH CORPORATE AMERICA. THERE ARE STILL OPPORTUNITIES TO ME FELLOW BLACK PEOPLE WHO SHARE YOUR PASSIONS.

EVEN SOMETHING AS SIMPLE AS RIDING A MOTORCYCLE CAN PUT YOU IN A POSITION TO SEE OTHER BROTHERS ON BIKES. JUST BE OPEN TO CONVERSE AND GIVE PEOPLE A CHANCE.

GOOD LUCK TO YOU BREH.


YOU AREN'T DEPRESSED. YOU JUST LONGING FOR SOMETHING. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT.

 

[Vandelay]

With hobbies.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

Bumble () but seriously that's a good app to look for platonic friendship

 

[Mindfield333]

Bumble () but seriously that's a good app to look for platonic friendship

that would feel very swiping on other men. Although I heard there’s a option for friends only it would just feel weird.

 

[Gold]

Church