How/where do I make more like minded friends?

[Rocket Scientist]

Friends are overrated they gonna still let you down etc .If you get these friends u still gonna want more from them time etc.Life isn't a movie things come to you when u least expect it . When you go looking you never find and plus you come off needy and desperate. You a young buck outside of work,gym and church should be an option. Try a local Toastmasters public speaking as well many members are lawyer,doctors .I met some of my best friends from there. If you are in a big city you have no excuse

 

[skeetsinternal]

With hobbies.

Good point. It be alot of people without hobbies. Especially women

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

Friends are overrated they gonna still let you down etc .If you get these friends u still gonna want more from them time etc.Life isn't a movie things come to you when u least expect it . When you go looking you never find and plus you come off needy and desperate. You a young buck outside of work,gym and church should be an option. Try a local Toastmasters public speaking as well many members are lawyer,doctors .I met some of my best friends from there. If you are in a big city you have no excuse

Let down? That's the problem right there if your even putting another man in the position to let you down () you're setting yourselves up for failure. Men should only be nonchalantly hanging out with eachother and chopping it up i never understood that gay azz my brother for life shyt nikkaz be doing.

 

[Silky Johnson]

IF YOU WANT TO FIND LIKE MINDED PEOPLE JUST DO SOMETHING SATISFYING FOR YOURSELF. FIND A HOBBY OF SOME SORT THAT COMPLIMENTS YOU. OTHER PEOPLE WHO DO THE SAME WILL EVENTUALLY CROSS PATHS WITH YOU. IT REALLY HELPS WHEN YOU WORK IN A FIELD THAT YOU TRULY ENJOY. YOUR COLLEAGUES BECOME YOUR CIRCLE ON SOME LEVEL AND YOU GET TO MEET THE TYPE OF PEOPLE YOU ENJOY BEING AROUND.

ITS HARDER AS A BLACK MAN BECAUSE WE HAVE THIS LOVE/HATE RELATIONSHIP WITH CORPORATE AMERICA. THERE ARE STILL OPPORTUNITIES TO ME FELLOW BLACK PEOPLE WHO SHARE YOUR PASSIONS.

EVEN SOMETHING AS SIMPLE AS RIDING A MOTORCYCLE CAN PUT YOU IN A POSITION TO SEE OTHER BROTHERS ON BIKES. JUST BE OPEN TO CONVERSE AND GIVE PEOPLE A CHANCE.

GOOD LUCK TO YOU BREH.


YOU AREN'T DEPRESSED. YOU JUST LONGING FOR SOMETHING. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT.

fukk you yelling for?

 

[Silky Johnson]

Love my brehs and we laugh a lot with jokes and roasting but they really living a second childhood. Just gaming and getting lit after work. Will still chill and be there for my brehs but I been done getting lit. I'm a fall back a bit, just have a different mindset.

I even made some good friends with folks from my job. Joke around too. They're a bit younger, so I just see myself in them. Wide eyed optimistic brehs.

I don't look like I'm in my early 20s but I'm starting to feel the disconnect in music, memes, etc. One of my brehs having a baby shower with his girl next weekend. They already chose a name.

Maybe I'm having a pre quater life crisis. I'm happy and at peace but I have to be honest with myself. I wasted too much of my early adulthood. It's not about money, I literally don't want more possessions. Cop some new shoes recently because I actually needed them.

Log off of the internet, go outside and enjoy your own company. Everything else will fall into place.

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

fukk you yelling for?

 

[Rozay Oro]

IF YOU WANT TO FIND LIKE MINDED PEOPLE JUST DO SOMETHING SATISFYING FOR YOURSELF. FIND A HOBBY OF SOME SORT THAT COMPLIMENTS YOU. OTHER PEOPLE WHO DO THE SAME WILL EVENTUALLY CROSS PATHS WITH YOU. IT REALLY HELPS WHEN YOU WORK IN A FIELD THAT YOU TRULY ENJOY. YOUR COLLEAGUES BECOME YOUR CIRCLE ON SOME LEVEL AND YOU GET TO MEET THE TYPE OF PEOPLE YOU ENJOY BEING AROUND.

ITS HARDER AS A BLACK MAN BECAUSE WE HAVE THIS LOVE/HATE RELATIONSHIP WITH CORPORATE AMERICA. THERE ARE STILL OPPORTUNITIES TO ME FELLOW BLACK PEOPLE WHO SHARE YOUR PASSIONS.

EVEN SOMETHING AS SIMPLE AS RIDING A MOTORCYCLE CAN PUT YOU IN A POSITION TO SEE OTHER BROTHERS ON BIKES. JUST BE OPEN TO CONVERSE AND GIVE PEOPLE A CHANCE.

GOOD LUCK TO YOU BREH.


YOU AREN'T DEPRESSED. YOU JUST LONGING FOR SOMETHING. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT.

I have some friends from work but it's definitely not the same. I'm not depressed, some ppl tripping. Thanks for the advice.

Church

I got some, good people. Only started going January. We hang every once in a while.

 

[humminbird]

Well what are you looking for?
More ambitious people?
More mature people?

 

[Rozay Oro]

that would feel very swiping on other men. Although I heard there’s a option for friends only it would just feel weird.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Friends are overrated they gonna still let you down etc .If you get these friends u still gonna want more from them time etc.Life isn't a movie things come to you when u least expect it . When you go looking you never find and plus you come off needy and desperate. You a young buck outside of work,gym and church should be an option. Try a local Toastmasters public speaking as well many members are lawyer,doctors .I met some of my best friends from there. If you are in a big city you have no excuse

I'm not needy nor desperate.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Well what are you looking for?
More ambitious people?
More mature people?

Ambitious, not about money and shyt. Just want to do more than talk shyt and chill.

 

[Silky Johnson]

Ambitious, not about money and shyt. Just want to do more than talk shyt and chill.

I've been there...I was a college athlete that got hurt and had to come back home lost in the sauce. I found sanctuary by helping out with youth sports on the other side of the borough.

Leave your hood. Go to a concert/conference/random event in another city on the weekend. Find something that interests you and run with it

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I'm not needy nor desperate.

Not coming at you sideways but it reads like that good luck

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

Ambitious, not about money and shyt. Just want to do more than talk shyt and chill.

YEAH DEFINITELY FIND A HOBBY BRO. MAYBE TRY SOMETHING ART RELATED. ART FOLKS ARE DREAMERS. JUST BEING AROUND CREATIVE FOLKS CAN GET YOUR OWN AMBITION FLOWING.

 

[Rozay Oro]

I've been there...I was a college athlete that got hurt and had to come back home lost in the sauce. I found sanctuary by helping out with youth sports on the other side of the borough.

Leave your hood. Go to a concert/conference/random event in another city on the weekend. Find something that interests you and run with it

That's a great idea, thanks breh

Not coming at you sideways but it reads like that good luck

I've been an open book on here. I'm actually distant.