How would women react if men said "I can be masculine but only for the right women "

[UpAndComing]

I haven’t heard I’ll be feminine for the right man but I’ve heard submissive. Because how are you going to be submissive if you’re single? Or if the man isn’t the right one?

I think the equivalent would be a man saying he’ll be a provider for the right woman. Because you can’t do that with everyone and you can’t do while single.

but as for the question I would be turned off by a man saying he would only be masculine for the right woman because how can you turn that on and off? Why would you want to? I assume a man would be thrown off if a woman said that she’s only feminine sometimes too.

Being submissive IS EXACTLY what being feminine is

 

[Bigblackted4]

The bolded is why many people end up getting whooped or killed, they try somebody who shouldn't be tried. I don't have anything to prove to anyone so I show respect and mind my business but when people man, child, woman, etc. try me/test me for no reason other than their own ego I ALWAYS think for at least a few seconds of harming them, because the issuance of the "test" by itself is disrespect when there's no justifiable reason.

This is why I don't own weapons because I know I would've used them by now

Same

 

[Bossino]

Truth. My moms and family in general were educated and conservative, but I didn't have a pops or any male figure coming up, so I had to learn about masculinity the hard way.

I acted very friendly, even goofy to strangers because that's how I was taught (feminine), but that's shyt only works for kids and women. When I was doing that shyt past a certain age, it made dumbass, insecure, worthless life having women and matafukaz feel like they could talk shyt and violate.

That would make alot of folks want to reach for weapons, but Im still glad I learned the lesson eventually.

I'm working on my discipline/patience/control of temper, because frankly I get angry when people cross me, but I really have to lower my expectations and look at others as damn near savages until they consistently prove otherwise. I used to do the show love/respect to all, trust none, then show respect to all, trust none, but now I just match energy/treatment and trust none.

One of the things I'd harp to my children if I ever get to having any is "the world doesn't treat you any better for being a just/good person, and more of than not it'll treat you worse"

shyt really might be hell and we ain't even knowing word to Pac

 

[Bossino]

Same

This why when I read stories about dudes snapping in divorces, etc. I can't get mad at/kill the guy because I know if I didn't know better to avoid marriage altogether, or if I legitimately was in one somehow and thought I was going to lose everything I'd work for I probably wouldn't be able to accept that without retribution. I'm willing to take certain Ls, but there's a breaking point where to quote the late Black Rob, "If I don't live, nobody live"

For some things I just put in too much time and effort for someone to try to finesse/fleece without having to shed blood, it's that simple

 

[ThatTruth777]

by appealing to a neutral position

 

[CopiousX]

Would women be turned off by this

As i man, i don't understand how you can turn off your masculinity. Its natural. It oozes out like a beer keg with hole at the bottom. I think women would think you were cap if you said this.

 

[DatBoiHawk]

People are just dumb as hell or either deliberately trying not to understand the question with some of these answers

 

[KidJSoul]

There is no comparison imo.

A man saying what OP typed would just sound gay...forgot OP was zesty.

As straight men, we're naturally masculine to a default. A straight man couldn't act or know how to be feminine if he tried because it's against his/our nature.

To even say or entertain that concept would be comical.

This isn't always true. There's always a minority of men and women that don't fit.

Think of women that are tomboys, for instance

 

[The Fade]

I never seen a masculine chick switch to being feminine for a breh

I seen a screenshot of a BW saying she did it for a WM and she came to the realization that she shouldve did it for a breh from the get go

 

[Hoodoo Child]

It doesn't go both ways, because men need to always be masculine, around men, women, and children. When women don't act feminine, they tend to have little to no consequences if they look halfway decent.

When men don't act masculine, they get tested by other men, women, and children. That's one of the many life lessons that boys without fathers or guidance have to learn the hard way.

Well those consequences need to start being enforced then. Gotta stop picking and choosing