How would women react if men said "I can be masculine but only for the right women "

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Women dont say im gonna be feminine for the right man

So its not a equivalent

They usually say they going to be submissive for the right man

That like a male saying im gonna be a simp for the right woman

I seen this on fb

But its not in context
How does submissive equate to simping?
 

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I'm trying to picture myself entertaining a phone call from @anotherman cuz I'm seeing a girl he used to date:mjlol:
When me and that ex got together I was introduced to his ex-wife because his daughter would be there at our place.

So I was trying to be respectful and stuff. And she just broke down one day. Sometimes it goes right.
But sometimes it goes horribly left.:mjlol:
 

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I'm friends with a lot of folk and it's only certain women that say dumb shyt like this

Yeah it sounds odd man or woman.

It implies "I'll only do nice things if u meet my unicorn standard" if not, bite dust

Also OP, u meant if men said they would only be a leader or be dominant for the right woman
 
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There is no comparison imo.

A man saying what OP typed would just sound gay...forgot OP was zesty.

As straight men, we're naturally masculine to a default. A straight man couldn't act or know how to be feminine if he tried because it's against his/our nature.

To even say or entertain that concept would be comical.
 

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Would women be turned off by this :jbhmm:

Honestly in a traditional sense that's how I am with women, I don't open doors for every woman, protect every woman, respect every woman, etc. I pick my spots.

I avoid conflict unless necessary, don't get into pissing contests with guys etc. I try to stay lowkey/to myself, but some view that as passive and transitively non-masculine

In the connotative not being a bytch, having principles, etc. I do that for self, so those things happen regardless. But I largely ignore women nowadays, so their perception is highly irrelevant
 

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I haven’t heard I’ll be feminine for the right man but I’ve heard submissive. Because how are you going to be submissive if you’re single? Or if the man isn’t the right one?

I think the equivalent would be a man saying he’ll be a provider for the right woman. Because you can’t do that with everyone and you can’t do while single.

but as for the question I would be turned off by a man saying he would only be masculine for the right woman because how can you turn that on and off? Why would you want to? I assume a man would be thrown off if a woman said that she’s only feminine sometimes too. :heh:
What exactly is a submissive woman?
 

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It doesn't go both ways, because men need to always be masculine, around men, women, and children. When women don't act feminine, they tend to have little to no consequences if they look halfway decent.

When men don't act masculine, they get tested by other men, women, and children. That's one of the many life lessons that boys without fathers or guidance have to learn the hard way.

The bolded is why many people end up getting whooped or killed, they try somebody who shouldn't be tried. I don't have anything to prove to anyone so I show respect and mind my business but when people man, child, woman, etc. try me/test me for no reason other than their own ego I ALWAYS think for at least a few seconds of harming them, because the issuance of the "test" by itself is disrespect when there's no justifiable reason.

This is why I don't own weapons because I know I would've used them by now
 

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The bolded is why many people end up getting whooped or killed, they try somebody who shouldn't be tried. I don't have anything to prove to anyone so I show respect and mind my business but when people man, child, woman, etc. try me/test me for no reason other than their own ego I ALWAYS think for at least a few seconds of harming them, because the issuance of the "test" by itself is disrespect when there's no justifiable reason.

This is why I don't own weapons because I know I would've used them by now

Truth. My moms and family in general were educated and conservative, but I didn't have a pops or any male figure coming up, so I had to learn about masculinity the hard way.

I acted very friendly, even goofy to strangers because that's how I was taught (feminine), but that's shyt only works for kids and women. When I was doing that shyt past a certain age, it made dumbass, insecure, worthless life having women and matafukaz feel like they could talk shyt and violate.

That would make alot of folks want to reach for weapons, but Im still glad I learned the lesson eventually.
 
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