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Youseenmywork
KING
Sounds jaded to me. Didn you make any mistakes in the relationship ...at all ?
Mistake how? Forgetting to set the dvr for his favorite show?
That's not equivalent to cheating and having a child outside of the relationship
Dang, some men I tell youMistake how? Forgetting to set the dvr for his favorite show?
That's not equivalent to cheating and having a child outside of the relationship
Youseenmywork
KING
Personal i really would like you to DM this situation when you get the time. I hate hearing this but its apart of the game ...i had a girl cheat on me and left the evidence on the night standMistake how? Forgetting to set the dvr for his favorite show?
That's not equivalent to cheating and having a child outside of the relationship
Personal i really would like you to DM this situation when you get the time. I hate hearing this but its apart of the game ...i had a girl cheat on me and left the evidence on the night stand
I've told this story on the coli before....
I was in a relationship for 5 yrs....he finally decided to go to community college, I helped him writing papers and all .. we talked about marriage.... he said he wasn't ready because he wasn't stable... he finally moved out of his moms house to his own place...he then cheated with an illegal immigrant and got her pregnant... men lie and cheat... the end....
I am sorry to hear that. Eugh, I hate people who cheat. Ehy not just leave.Personal i really would like you to DM this situation when you get the time. I hate hearing this but its apart of the game ...i had a girl cheat on me and left the evidence on the night stand
Is he african American? And how did you find out and handle the situation?
Youseenmywork
KING
Yup shes jaded
...we are not all the same thoe. Were there outher times you were cheated on or naw?
Don't lose hope in finding a good man. 
No he was Jamaican.... He called and told me....
....man... I am not proud of the way I handled it at all... it was a muddy break up....
I didn't even drop his ass right away... silly silly me...
He promised that he was just going to be a father to his child... as soon as she had the baby, he would file for full custody.... so I believed him.... believed that we would raise the child together... he moved her in by the way (said she was homeless)...listen... I said I was silly...I wanted to believe that we would be a family...
it wasn't until her 9th month that I ended it... we were supposed to meet up.... he stood me up.... no phone call.... no text.... the shyt finally clicked in my mind.... he was never leaving her....he was carrying on two different relationships....she wasn't a one night deal... I was the expendable one that he didn't give a fukk about... that was some ether for my spirit/soul....
..... he called for weeks after.... but I never spoke to him again
He promised that he was just going to be a father to his child... as soon as she had the baby, he would file for full custody.... so I believed him.... believed that we would raise the child together... he moved her in by the way (said she was homeless)...listen... I said I was silly...I wanted to believe that we would be a family...
it wasn't until her 9th month that I ended it... we were supposed to meet up.... he stood me up.... no phone call.... no text.... the shyt finally clicked in my mind.... he was never leaving her....he was carrying on two different relationships....she wasn't a one night deal... I was the expendable one that he didn't give a fukk about... that was some ether for my spirit/soul....
..... he called for weeks after.... but I never spoke to him againI felt the pain through your post. I am truly sorryNo he was Jamaican.... He called and told me....
man... I am not proud of the way I handled it at all... it was a muddy break up....
I didn't even drop his ass right away... silly silly me...
He promised that he was just going to be a father to his child... as soon as she had the baby, he would file for full custody.... so I believed him.... believed that we would raise the child together... he moved her in by the way (said she was homeless)...listen... I said I was silly...I wanted to believe that we would be a family...
it wasn't until her 9th month that I ended it... we were supposed to meet up.... he stood me up.... no phone call.... no text.... the shyt finally clicked in my mind.... he was never leaving her....he was carrying on two different relationships....she wasn't a one night deal... I was the expendable one that he didn't give a fukk about... that was some ether for my spirit/soul....
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In Canada Jamaican men have a bad reputation for fathering children out of relationships and treating women poorly. Not all are like that but you get my drift. I hope it has not embittered you but it has made you smarter as a woman.
Yup shes jaded
Well yeah... but this guy would never make "us" official but would always claim he wasn't seeing anyone else... Dealt with him for 2 years off and on...I never saw him cheating but the final straw was when he was liking one of my friends booty pose pics and bikini pics on facebook.... the straight disrespect of trying to facilitate cheating with one of my friends made me dead that...
Youseenmywork
KING
Seems like you really know how to pick them...but don't be bitter it only hurts you . I understand not giving out titles but that is another thread for another day . Not giving out titles has it own philosophy.