How would you handle this situation?

[Sex Luthor]

Say you found a woman that checks all the boxes that you need her to check. You both get along well, have fun together have the same beliefs and everything. Y'all been together for 6 months no issues.

The only down side is she's lazy when it comes to sex and gives terrible head. Lazy to the point where you don't even want sex sometimes. She enjoys what you do to her and always wants it but you just not feeling it like that. How would you handle this? Would you stay, leave, tell her what you want her to do or just deal with it and hope it gets better?

 

[UpAndComing]

Call me crazy but "sexual chemistry" is the lowest on my list of reasons to bush a girl

Nothing beats a mental connection and values connection. NOTHING

Just gradually get her more comfortable in your sexual style is 100x better than getting with a girl who has amazing sexual chemistry with you but horrible in every other aspect in the relationship

 

[Sex Luthor]

Call me crazy but "sexual chemistry" is the lowest on my list of reasons to bush a girl

Nothing beats a mental connection and values connection. NOTHING

Just gradually get her more comfortable in your sexual style is 100x better than getting with a girl who has amazing sexual chemistry with you but horrible in every other aspect in the relationship

I ask bc my lil cousin be asking me for advice but I'm different bc I been with my woman since high school so it's a lot of that I never had to go thru. He 19 so he still young and don't understand the connection part is most important

He said she kind of sensitive so he don't want to say nothing bc she might feel like she not enough for him.

 

[The ADD]

Talk to her about it

 

[BaldingSoHard]

lol, sex....

Man if you don't gtfoh here... planning your life around your dikk....

Edit: I see that it is your 19 year old cousin. That makes more sense. I was about to say you are too old to be asking this question.

 

[Olmec]

shyt, sex is the easiest problem to fix. some bytches only have p*ssy to offer, so you should try to work it out with her. coach her and tell her what you like and find out what she likes.

 

[jdubnyce]

Breh...talk about it and teach her
You have the opportunity to mould her

The only down side is she's lazy when it comes to sex and gives terrible head. Lazy to the point where you don't even want sex sometimes. She enjoys what you do to her and always wants it but you just not feeling it like that. How would you handle this?

 

[TRUEST]

Op, she may not be as into as you think. Sounds to me she’s using u to pass time. A lack of enthusiasm to please, from your girl, is a red flag.

U can try to argue ur way around this but unless she comes from a foreign culture or is an immigrant, this is bad for you. Writings on the wall.

 

[Sccit]

YOU NOT DOIN SOMETHIN RIGHT

SOME FEMALES NEED TO GET EXTRA NASTY TO BE TURNED ON

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

She's not attracted to you. She's using you for some kind of non-sexual benefit that you offer, and she's getting her sexual needs satisfied elsewhere.

 

[Taadow]

tell her what you want her to do

There we go.

This is one of those “problems” that is only a problem if you make it one.
You make it one when you don’t address it upfront and wait too long to deal with it.

If you like your dicc sucked a certain way, you should tell her the first time she puts her lips on it.
If you wanna drink Mad Dog 20/20 out of her asscracque, bring the bottle to the bed on Day 1.

The longer you wait to spring stuff on her the weirder it’s gonna be when she thought everything was cool already.

And the reason niccas (read: everybody) do this is because they’re scared they might not get some sex.
But if you gonna get some sex, it might as well be the kind you want from somebody you want and get the uncomfortableness out of the way early.

 

[African_brehda]

checks all the boxes that you need her to check.

she's lazy when it comes to sex and gives terrible head

Is it oochie Wallie or is it one mic?

 

[TreySav]

Why are you talking to us, breh? Go Have a conversation with her and encourage her to be more involved in the experience.

Ever notice how often women are quick to use words like “we/us” when they really want to talk about how unhappy you’re making them? If she genuinely likes you and you stopped texting her for a few days, you’re going to receive a wall of text messages because her emotional needs are not being met. Why should you settle when yours needs aren’t being met?

Speak to her in a respectful and dignified manner but if shyt remains the same:

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

Talk to her about it and depending how the convo goes and if things don’t progress then start talking about bringing other women into our sex life to compensate for her dead body posture intercourse issues

 

[2 one 3]

Smash her sister…