I already know what imma do and how, but i'm curious about yall input.
SHORTENED STORY: my immature, greedy, lazy, impatient, selfish. and jealous brother told me he is going to buy a ticket to see me. I'm going to tell him not to, because i don't want him to come.
So my older (but not bigger
) brother was gonna fly in from out of state to visit me, but I strongly don't wanna see him. Last time I saw him over the holidays, it was horrible just being around him. I barely even see my family once a year, and he made the experience horrible. imma just list everything.
1. He smokes entirely too much weed (to the point where he falls asleep in front of the wheel and almost killed us last time i saw him). nikka is always falling asleep somewhere and i can tell it fukks up his brain.
2. He is immature and it is hard being around him, especially seeing how i'm supposed to be the younger one
3.He is crazy greedy, jealous, and impatient with his time (he had a problem wit me goin to two stores to buy family gifts while we were out, but had no problem looking at games for himself for 20 minutes). I helped him build his damn furniture for 5+ hours and he wants to get short wit me for going shopping for 30 damn minutes.
4. He is short with everyone and yells at my mom and dad FREQUENTLY. He doesn't do this to other people outside of his family though. Unappreciative and ungrateful
5. He has minimal presence of mind
He is unaware of how his actions affect others to the point where I had to tell him about his actions my last visit and of course he got defensive and couldn't see the error of his ways by trying to flip it on me when i didn't even do anything.
I talk to my dad about him too and I know he agrees with me, but he just keeps sayin, "haha, well he's ya BROTHER" as in i'm supposed to just put up with him because he's a blood relative 
fukk that man. I have put up with him my whole damn life and i'm over him. I just want to be by myself and indulge in my hobbies without having unpleasant vibes around me REGARDLESS of who it is. I really don't care and he needs a really big wake up call. That nikka ain't NEVER struggled for anything in his life and he is spoiled and expects everything to be handed to him or mom to bail him out since he is a mommas boy. I grew up total opposite of that and built character from it .
I plan on calling him and telling him this straight up, but not in a confrontational kind of way, just in the tired way that i legitimately feel dealing with him
. If he did come here, I honestly feel like not only would I not have a good time, but I'd get annoyed by him and tell him to leave or leave him prematurely anyway because i'm fed up fam :omgmjcry:
SHORTENED STORY: my immature, greedy, lazy, impatient, selfish. and jealous brother told me he is going to buy a ticket to see me. I'm going to tell him not to, because i don't want him to come.
So my older (but not bigger
) brother was gonna fly in from out of state to visit me, but I strongly don't wanna see him. Last time I saw him over the holidays, it was horrible just being around him. I barely even see my family once a year, and he made the experience horrible. imma just list everything.1. He smokes entirely too much weed (to the point where he falls asleep in front of the wheel and almost killed us last time i saw him). nikka is always falling asleep somewhere and i can tell it fukks up his brain.
2. He is immature and it is hard being around him, especially seeing how i'm supposed to be the younger one
3.He is crazy greedy, jealous, and impatient with his time (he had a problem wit me goin to two stores to buy family gifts while we were out, but had no problem looking at games for himself for 20 minutes). I helped him build his damn furniture for 5+ hours and he wants to get short wit me for going shopping for 30 damn minutes.
4. He is short with everyone and yells at my mom and dad FREQUENTLY. He doesn't do this to other people outside of his family though. Unappreciative and ungrateful
5. He has minimal presence of mind
He is unaware of how his actions affect others to the point where I had to tell him about his actions my last visit and of course he got defensive and couldn't see the error of his ways by trying to flip it on me when i didn't even do anything. I talk to my dad about him too and I know he agrees with me, but he just keeps sayin, "haha, well he's ya BROTHER
" as in i'm supposed to just put up with him because he's a blood relative fukk that man. I have put up with him my whole damn life and i'm over him. I just want to be by myself and indulge in my hobbies without having unpleasant vibes around me REGARDLESS of who it is. I really don't care and he needs a really big wake up call. That nikka ain't NEVER struggled for anything in his life and he is spoiled and expects everything to be handed to him or mom to bail him out since he is a mommas boy. I grew up total opposite of that and built character from it . I plan on calling him and telling him this straight up, but not in a confrontational kind of way, just in the tired way that i legitimately feel dealing with him
. If he did come here, I honestly feel like not only would I not have a good time, but I'd get annoyed by him and tell him to leave or leave him prematurely anyway because i'm fed up fam :omgmjcry:
Iām almost 30 and still afraid to test that out.
