Hows your social life in 2015?

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I'm 28 and right now my social life is kinda slow because of my job and 40+ hours. I have more responsibilities at my job now and it's mentality tiring and that causes me be become lazy as fukk when I get home. I still go out; it's not like every weekend; but if it's something poppin like last week with the mayweather fight, I will go out because there is going to be a stable of hoes out.

But when I was out after the fight at the club, I was like damn I could be home playing battlefield; but to keep it real you think your missing out, but your not.

You say your introverted; but I don't think that's the case. I think your just stuck in your comfort zone; do some shyt that you know you wouldn't do unless your with your friends. Like going to a dance bar by yourself; fukk all that friends shyt, understand yourself first and who you are. Just try it.

When I go to a dance bar by myself; I always walk towards the bar first and grab a drink; even if it's water. Then after that get it poppin :salute:; even when I was in college I still went to parties by myself, grab some bytches and dip.

And stop caring what people think; just do you.
 

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I work 40 to 48+ hrs a week but outside of making small talk with coworkers at work, that's pretty much it. I don't have any friends so I usually surf on web, read graphic novels, play vid games, watch porn, watch sports etc. until it's time to go to sleep and do it again. I use to care but now it's whatever :manny:
 

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Im 24 and my soical life is non-existent.

Working 40 hours a week.
Helping parents on weekends.

Introverted, so im not a fan of clubs.

Friends are busy with their own shyt..

Trying to get out of this hamster wheel during tge summer..

How yall doing in 2015?


Welcome to adult life youngin!



:mjcry:
 

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My social life is horrible. I hardly know anyone here in Humboldt, and I only have 1 friend back home (I was dumb and didn't keep contact with the rest of my boys from high school). I spend every weekend at home instead of going out, I'm broke, and I can't even drive.

Also pretty much the only sort of action I get is on one site from a girl who lives in Europe. I'm still a virgin at 24 (technically 25 at the end of this month). Every know and then, I get a girl to respond on a dating site locally, but many times, I'll be lucky to make it past a 1st date.

On the plus side, at least I'm taking care of business in school and am staying out of trouble, and at least I have my family.
 

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My social life is doing pretty well, I feel like this year will be better than last year's (And last year's was decent). I'm 22 and enrolling for a Trade in September hopefully. I kick it with multiple friends on different days, I just got a new job (phone research.. It's also a temp, but eh. It pays. :yeshrug:) and since the summer is coming up, there's definitely going to be a lot more bonfire parties, cookouts and get-togethers I'll be hitting up. I don't frequent clubs all that much, but there might be a few block parties coming soon. Never went to those, so I might consider checking that out.

Also my friends are wanting to see a bunch of the new movies coming out this summer, so there's that too.
 

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Alot of Nikkas my age got families and shyt so
Their subtitled to only going to bars, ratchet strip clubs and thots spots. I'm more adventurous and like going and doing different shyt.

I been doing my thing for Dolo and its sometimes better that way.
This. My friends got babies now so its just text conversations, and dolo chilling.

I'm moving to a bigger city soon. Hopefully that helps.
 

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Any of y'all just out grow all your friends?

Like, no animosity but you've grown to become a different person... and they still stuck in the old cycles... they want to do things you're no longer interested in... Thing is you know it's better you do your own thing but you just like... "damn, i'm kind of alone now..."

it hurts at first, but deep down it's like you know it has to be that way until you get to doing what you have to do.. and finding people on the same path..

cold world y'all :mjcry:
 

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i'm pretty detached/reclusive but at the same time active af. some weeks i'll be out everyday with peeps or a chick, other weeks i'll just chill at home everyday.
 

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i'm pretty detached/reclusive but at the same time active af. some weeks i'll be out everyday with peeps or a chick, other weeks i'll just chill at home everyday.

This is me. But at the moment my social life is terrible. I have one associate I've met here, and I don't know if she's really my "type" but I'm in no position to turn down friends. I just moved here and I don't know anybody, it's hard to meet girls. I guess I need to be more proactive and just go do things myself, but sometimes I just want some companionship :mjcry:.

Oh well, I'm going to go to see this exhibit I've been trying to get people to see with me today. #dolo.
 
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