I think only 80 something percent have black wives and interracial dating has increased especially among younger people so i think that stat isnt really valid, and where im from black men bashing black women isnt a vocal minority at all. you cant deny other women experiences.
That girl has a point, women are largely valued by their beauty. and when black men insult the way black women look constantly you take away their value. In the United States and in plenty of western countries other women are treated better and provided better lives by their men than black women, you cant deny this.
dating does not equal marriage. most of my married friends (I have A LOT) have dated interracialy but all of them married within their race. according to the 2010 census, 90% of married black men have black wives.
as to your second point, I disagree with the first part. White men are the kings of insulting their women, they just exhibit much more tact when doing it. Feminism is a mainstream movement for a reason
as for the bolded, I agree but what are black women gonna do about it? the ills the black community face are mostly due to white supremacy but it seems like black people are comfortable being second class citizens.
marrying a white man will not give you an equal social standing with white women. most black women married to white men marry down anyway. it really pains me that black women arent afforded the same luxuries white women are, but we have to work with the cards were dealt with. if black men and women want to overcome, we must unite and build institutions together.