HuffPost Article: Black Men Don't Like Black Women

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My concern is not being "unwanted," by black men,my concern is how black women are viewed/treated in the black community.& It's funny because the so called children you think I yearn for fit the same description black men wish to have as a spouse. :mjpls:I'm sleep doe.
So your saying that most black men do want black women, is just the disrespect you have a problem with?
 

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I think only 80 something percent have black wives and interracial dating has increased especially among younger people so i think that stat isnt really valid, and where im from black men bashing black women isnt a vocal minority at all. you cant deny other women experiences.



That girl has a point, women are largely valued by their beauty. and when black men insult the way black women look constantly you take away their value. In the United States and in plenty of western countries other women are treated better and provided better lives by their men than black women, you cant deny this.

dating does not equal marriage. most of my married friends (I have A LOT) have dated interracialy but all of them married within their race. according to the 2010 census, 90% of married black men have black wives.

as to your second point, I disagree with the first part. White men are the kings of insulting their women, they just exhibit much more tact when doing it. Feminism is a mainstream movement for a reason

as for the bolded, I agree but what are black women gonna do about it? the ills the black community face are mostly due to white supremacy but it seems like black people are comfortable being second class citizens.

marrying a white man will not give you an equal social standing with white women. most black women married to white men marry down anyway. it really pains me that black women arent afforded the same luxuries white women are, but we have to work with the cards were dealt with. if black men and women want to overcome, we must unite and build institutions together.
 

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dating does not equal marriage. most of my married friends (I have A LOT) have dated interracialy but all of them married within their race. according to the 2010 census, 90% of married black men have black wives.

as to your second point, I disagree with the first part. White men are the kings of insulting their women, they just exhibit much more tact when doing it. Feminism is a mainstream movement for a reason

as for the bolded, I agree but what are black women gonna do about it? the ills the black community face are mostly due to white supremacy but it seems like black people are comfortable being second class citizens.

marrying a white man will not give you an equal social standing with white women. most black women married to white men marry down anyway. it really pains me that black women arent afforded the same luxuries white women are, but we have to work with the cards were dealt with. if black men and women want to overcome, we must unite and build institutions together.

Sorry but no.....

Pew study found that among those who married in 2008-2010. Among blacks, 24% of newlywed black men married outside their race, compared with 9% of women.

http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2012/02/16/the-rise-of-intermarriage/

And the numerous black women that I know who have white husbands have married men who were equal or higher in status. Many are stay-at-home moms (by choice) and are still able to maintain a good standard of living.
 

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It's funny these bed wenches always seem to co-op black movements for the sole purpose of not feeling guilty about dating white guys. :sas1:


If you date a black girl, these dumbass wenches will complain that you prefer mixed women and that she isn't REALLY black. If you date a full black woman, they will claim you ignore the dark skinned women because you are a self hater and if get a dark skinned women they will swear it's a cover until you can find a nice white girl to date. Straight up delusional and paranoid.
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Every single ATTRACTIVE black women I know is taken. I don't know a single good looking black woman who isn't a whore/unstable/single mother that isn't wifed up or dating someone. These box body wenches are delusional and refuse to accept the fact that 90% of black men are married to black women because their friends refuse to tell them they can't get a man because they have terrible attitudes, have unrealistic expectations, are delusional feminist, disloyal and their a fat box body trick and that's why they are still single and miserable well into their 30s even though they have multiple degrees. Black guys are much more lenient about weight and I know plenty of white guys who will drop a woman on her ass in the streets for gaining 20 lbs with absolutely no regrets about it. Don't even get me started on how they view single mothers. Go to bodybuilding forum and they will absolutely DESTROY and shyt on white single mothers with no fukks given. They will use the black community as an example of why matriarchy and single motherhood is bad for the white community and lead to it's downfall. White people aren't dumb, they didn't oppress the black community for four centuries during happenstance. It's chess out in the real world and we have to play to win.
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I don't even care if a black girl is dating a white guy but don't be dishonest about it and shyt on black guys to justify it. Don't make up a bunch of bullshyt ass excusing claiming black men did this, black men did that.

Most importantly, men don't give a fukk how many degrees you have, if you're a basic bytch with a shytty attitude about life, you're a basic bytch with a shytty attitude about life. A master's degree won't fix that. The fact that you were able to get an advanced degree but can't figure out what a guy simply wants shows the cluelessness of black feminism and the black male bashing movement. You would have a better time attracting men going to the gym regularly and eating a calorie appropriate diet than wasting time on those black feminist blogs ran by black women with white husbands shytting on black guys they aren't even dating.:aicmon:
 
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