huh??

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u should've left out the erykah part.
her love life ain't what most women want.
 
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to have 3 kids by 3 boyfriends? yes, i'm positive most women don't want that.



Erykah is a free spirit who is living life on her terms. Them brothas aint leaving her. She's leaving them.

And I'm still saying that a lot of women would love to have multiple high value brothas fiending for them.

And they probably wouldn't live the free spirit life that Erykah lives. But they would like to be sought after by men of means and then choose from among them who to be with.
 

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Are you a woman?
yes

Erykah is a free spirit who is living life on her terms. Them brothas aint leaving her. She's leaving them.

And I'm still saying that a lot of women would love to have multiple high value brothas fiending for them.

And they probably wouldn't live the free spirit life that Erykah lives. But they would like to be sought after by men of means and then choose from among them who to be with.

think of any chick u know with 3 baby daddies. nobody irl is saying some "she lives life on her own terms." they are calling her a hoodrat, bird etc. men definitely ain't climbing over walls to get on one knee for her.

i understand marriage isn't for everyone, but if she has some great dating pool and still can't win, then it looks like her own ability to choose is flawed.

i don't want to further take away from your thread by going on about Badu.
 

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Women don't want accountability, brehette. I tried to tell them but they don't want to hear it.

Listening for a women is harder than getting your hair done for 12 hours, or getting waxed and shaving and all of that. Most women would happily do that before deciding that she's ready to be selfless and listen to her man.

It's unfortunate because y'all would find true love if you did this. Most of us men have never experienced this and it's sad. When we do run into a woman who does it, she's a unicorn like Badu.
We’re listening 👂🏾 🥰
 

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Erykah is a free spirit who is living life on her terms. Them brothas aint leaving her. She's leaving them.

And I'm still saying that a lot of women would love to have multiple high value brothas fiending for them.

And they probably wouldn't live the free spirit life that Erykah lives. But they would like to be sought after by men of means and then choose from among them who to be with.
Sounds like she’s more good at fukking than relationships.

She is a “high value” bird and flocking within her network. If she wasn’t Erykah Badu, she’d just be a bad bytch with 3 kids and 3 different daddies, like some of us see on the regular.

I love her music. But relationship advice? Doesn’t appear she can stick to it, just like some of us see on the regular.
 

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Men simply don’t get it… A “relationship” for men is bending over backwards for a woman, kissing her ass, expecting nothing while she asks for everything, and tricking off in the HOPES of not growing old alone and infrequent access to her musty once a month bleeding raggedy ass pwussy that a bunch of other nikkas smutted out before you for a Chik Fil A combo.

The cold part about it is, you have to act like you enjoy this abuse… Happy wife, happy life… I gotta ask the boss lady her permission… She wears the pants… She handles the finances… You buy the house and she sends your ass to the garage, a cold basement, or a small room in the house to watch the game and you call it a “man cave”.

She isn’t gonna listen to you EVER and if you’re ever vulnerable, she will throw back up in your face.
 

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True. I just broke up with a chick after we dated for like three months because she could not listen for shyt.

She looked good. Sex was good. She could cook and clean. But unable to listen for shyt.

We got into an argument about something that wasn’t even that serious, but she couldn’t listen to what I had to say and we had to call it quits.
Honestly communication should be a non negotiable thing. If you aren't willing to listen, you can't build anything.
 
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