Exactly always have to think long term and big picture.Read the title of thread and thought the man was going to be a simp. But after reading i agree with him. Violence is not the answer in these situations even though its extremely hard to resist. Where i live a man killed another man for sleeping with his wife. know where his is now ,in jail and the wife is free. Its not worth it guys not over hoes, dump then stunt on em with your success. However i will say this im not living with no wife or girlfriend if shes going to cheat she'll cheat in her own house on her own bed with her musty female or male lover.