the fukk does masculinity have to do with vacuuming and cooking? If you're a man and live by yourself and don't know how to cook some basic stuff (mashed potatoes? veggies? baked fish? chicken breasts?) you lost. Period. Saves money, healthier, etc. And you best believe women are attracted to men who cook. My spaghetti has gotten me laid before brehs.
Also if you live alone, you vacuum your house. If you're married I'm assuming both of you have done it before, and it shouldn't be a problem. If I had a wife, and I noticed the floor needed to be vacuumed, I'd do it without thinking. Because I like a clean house. Ain't nothing masculine/feminine about that