Hypothetical: Your S/O Is Becoming Signficantly Washed Up

[Sad Bunny]

How do you break it to them that they need to lose weight or whatever...

Is it better to be blunt on some zero-tolerance shyt or is it better to throw out subliminal lifestyle recommendations? I'm not one to hurt feelings but I don't know what connects more.

Encourage her to eat healthy and go to the gym and cook at home together.

Go for walks together and basically try to ease it in that you want to live a healthier lifestyle together.

But if she starts playing games you might just have to break it to her and let her know how your 100% feeling in that she's becoming a fat slob right before your eyes and you will not tolerate it LOL

 

[DrexlersFade]

Don't have this problem

 

[threattonature]

This. I can't ask my lady something I'm not doing myself.

And if you're living by it, she'll probably just pick up on your example indirectly.

I've seen way too many examples of dudes living in the gym killing it only to go home to some overweight female just packing on the pounds. I think as a man you just got to be straight up with her and tell her that she's gaining weight.

 

[intra vires]

If you don't feel like you can be open and honest with your SO, then you're probably with the wrong person.

 

[Strapped]

Buy her stationary bike

 

[Zero]

I've seen way too many examples of dudes living in the gym killing it only to go home to some overweight female just packing on the pounds. I think as a man you just got to be straight up with her and tell her that she's gaining weight.

And just how else am I supposed to lift her up breh?

 

[Vandelay]

I've seen way too many examples of dudes living in the gym killing it only to go home to some overweight female just packing on the pounds. I think as a man you just got to be straight up with her and tell her that she's gaining weight.

Not saying it doesn't exist...but I couldn't fix my lips to ask something of my lady I'm not doing myself.

Hell I was dating a chick who was 5'4 125 when I got with her, who after 3 years started pushing 180. I bought her a gym membership and she seemingly joked with family members I paid for it and she didn't use it. Dumped her ass shortly thereafter.

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

Is she depressed?

 

[Elle Driver]

Be straight forward but have compassion.

 

[CrimsonTider]

How do you break it to them that they need to lose weight or whatever...

Is it better to be blunt on some zero-tolerance shyt or is it better to throw out subliminal lifestyle recommendations? I'm not one to hurt feelings but I don't know what connects more.

Literally speaking Dwight Howard is washed up and confirmed gay and likes trehs

if you don’t change if you keep the username what does it say about you

 

[I AM WE ARE]

i slowly started changing the food in the house and the way i ate and carried myself. no bs a real woman would take notice and follow suit not on no pimpin shyt,but honestly when a woman is really into you, your habits,etc become hers

 

[idonttouchgrass]

id cheat

 

[Foxtrot]

Go all out and surprise her by splurging on her dream outfit.

But two sizes too small.

I won't guarantee no tears, but you can thank me later.

 

[VertigoKnight]

If her lifestyle is not already healthy you lawst.

I shouldn't be having to tell her to keep in shape, it should be something she does for herself.

Your woman can't have any real respect for you if she's getting sloppy.

Eating and staying healthy together is always the best.

 

[LebronsHairline]

Start working out heavily yourself and get on yo A game i mean put on a suit to go to the corner store nikka
eventually she'll notice and start working out or lose yo ass cuz youll find a badder bytch