I’m 25 year old and still a Virgin. I could use some some advice.

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  1. Son_Of_God

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    First off I want to say that I am not an incel and I don’t hate women. I don’t blame no one else but myself for this.

    I have a stable job but I’m trying to get an IT cert, I’m average looking and I workout from time to time and I live on my own. With that said I’m still a virgin. The reason why I’m still a Virgin is because I have no confidence around women at all and this stems from my very short height (I’m 5’5’’ by the way.) I’ve been rejected a few times due to my short stature and I’ve seen a lot of couples were the man is significantly taller and knowing how much women like tall guys I figure why even bother so I simply just stop approaching women.

    Lately I have been feeling very depressed about still being a virgin and I’ve decided to finally do something it but honestly I don’t know where to start. I have no game, I only have a few friends and my father and uncles were physically abusive to me so I can’t go to them for anything and all I have is younger cousins. I also don’t do nightclubs and bars because I’m a introvert.

    Can someone offer me some of guidance on what to do?
     
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  2. kuts

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    Pay for it.

    :rudy:
     
  3. BalmainReyes

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    When that first body eventually comes around, don't tell her you're a virgin. At all.

    Go the gym and put on muscle or pick a sport and start playing it as a hobby. Most people end up having sex with others through getting put on by friends. Be more social, get more friends, boom.
     
  4. Son_Of_God

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    I don’t want to pay for sex. I want a women to like me for me, not because I paid her.
     
  5. ThrobbingHood

    ThrobbingHood I hate Whoopi Goldberg's lips.

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    Date midgets or join the circus.
     
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    You didn't say nothing about that. You just said that you wanted to lose your virginity.

    If you want a woman to like you for you, then you actually don't even need to worry about sex. Just have fun!

    :jawalrus:
     
  7. Son_Of_God

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    Have fun how?
     
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    cheek100 Truuu Supporter

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    Your asking for a kidney breh. Women don’t just “like u for u”. They like u when other women like u.
    Pay for it so u can get the monkey off your back.
    Start hanging around cats that get p*ssy, take notes.
    Confidence is the key. Throw that INTROVERT bs in the garbage and set fire to it.
     
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    Why are you asking me?

    :stopitslime:

    Besides, I already told you how.

    :sas1:
     
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    No wonder your a virgin.
     
  11. ThrobbingHood

    ThrobbingHood I hate Whoopi Goldberg's lips.

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    I bet you’re the life and soul of the party (you’re never invited to.)
     
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    RennisDeynolds I am untethered and my rage knows no bounds!

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    go get professional help for the depression could stem from that abuse you mentioned :hubie:. thecoli is not the place for that kind of advice (the internet as a whole i guess unless its a specified forum for that)

    as for the ladies try to find people into the same things as you. look for singles events in your town or something to get started at local bars once you get a bit more confident

    you'll be alright breh
     
  13. intellect2k

    intellect2k She love me but all we do now is f*** & fight Supporter

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    Sign up for meetme, pop a gas station pill & be on your way
     
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    GOT DAMN!!!!!

    can you nikkas just think for yourselves when it comes to fukking women... stop asking other nikkas especially online about female advice, shyt
     
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    Don't use your height as an excuse. There are women who will eliminate your off the bat, but dealing with rejection is part of the game for all of us. Whether you're 5'5 or 6'5. It will always be something.

    A lot of the slickest players ever were short dudes. Find ways to develop your confidence in your appearance outside of your height and don't carry yourself like someone who is ashamed of being short. A lot of women don't fukk with short guys because of the insecurity, not the height itself.
     

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