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Why do people say that? So if u know someone is gettin cheated on the right thing to do is stay silent? How?

shyttt I wish someone, idc who, would let me kno if I was in the cheated's position!
Because some people do not like people in their business. And some people are happy being in denial or being oblivious. When you tell them you are bursting their bubble and killing their dream essentially and they start to resent you for it.

At the end of the day, it aint your business because you are not the one in the relationship and you do not know what kind of arrangement they are in.
 

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Why do people say that? So if u know someone is gettin cheated on the right thing to do is stay silent? How?

shyttt I wish someone, idc who, would let me kno if I was in the cheated's position!

She the one fukkin up the marriage and not ol dude who was messin around behind his wife back IN their own house? :deadmanny:

Oh please know that he is VERY wrong. To my understanding his wife told him not to come home and now he is stuggling to find somewhere to lay his head tonight and it won't be here for that very reason however...

L is causing problems in her OWN home and is putting her OWN husband in a fukked up situation because she wanted to prove a point.


Its good that M's wife got the heads up but it shouldn't have came from that source...
 

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Because some people do not like people in their business. And some people are happy being in denial or being oblivious. When you tell them you are bursting their bubble and killing their dream essentially and they start to resent you for it.

At the end of the day, it aint your business because you are not the one in the relationship and you do not know what kind of arrangement they are in.
Yeh its definitely not black and white, but im of the mindset that I do unto others how I would like done unto me(pause).

If I was gettin cheated on, I don't rly think the circumstances r relevant as in I would like to be advised regardless, so I could make my own decision on what to do next and get on with my life.

Truthfully, if someone resent me for tellin them, das on dem. Id rather try n do my part in lettin that person live a freer and more respectable life, than jus let it play out in front of my eyes.

Also, ur takin the stand that most ppl would like to stay in the dark rather than kno the truth, and idk if thats the reality.
 

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Yeh its definitely not black and white, but im of the mindset that I do unto others how I would like done unto me(pause).

If I was gettin cheated on, I don't rly think the circumstances r relevant as in I would like to be advised regardless, so I could make my own decision on what to do next and get on with my life.

Truthfully, if someone resent me for tellin them, das on dem. Id rather try n do my part in lettin that person live a freer and more respectable life, than jus let it play out in front of my eyes.

Also, ur takin the stand that most ppl would like to stay in the dark rather than kno the truth, and idk if thats the reality.
Im not taking any stand...

Im just giving an explanation. Everyone can make their own decisions. Im not trying to persuade you either. You asked a question and I answered it.
 

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My bad, Brehette. I've had a few beers and I tend to speak and apparently type little confusing.

Basically T and L are my neighbors (husband and wife) and T has a best friend named M. L ( T's wife) and M had an argument yesterday and out of spite L texted M's wife and told her M has been cheating on her with various women so now M is cursing and threatening T's wife right in front of his face and T is in the middle.
How Tyrone gon' sit back and let Marvin threaten his wife, Lashonda, like that?
 

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:snoop: nikkas talking to their neighbors about personal shyt

i say hi and by to my neighbors and how they yard look and keep moving

Believe me, If I had it my way that's exactly how it would be for me. My husband is just a very friendly guy and makes close friends with our neighbors. We've lived in 4 different places since we've been together and all 4 he has become tight with the neighbors. I on the other hand can't get buddy buddy with people like that. I'm suspicious of everyone.
 

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Because some people do not like people in their business. And some people are happy being in denial or being oblivious. When you tell them you are bursting their bubble and killing their dream essentially and they start to resent you for it.

At the end of the day, it aint your business because you are not the one in the relationship and you do not know what kind of arrangement they are in.

I disagree with "its not Lisa's business"... When Melvin came over to her house with the jump off, he made it her business.

I honestly would question my husband for 1.) permitting that scandalous behavior in our home and 2.) being friends with someone with that type of character

Lisa is wack for doing it out of spite and not just looking out for Melvin's wife. Terrance is also silly for bringing that drama to his front door.
 

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Cheaters are some of the worst people on the planet I swear. Dude not only is a sloppy and flagrant cheater but he expects everyone else to lie and assist in that bullshyt? WTF? Dude got what he deserved. It was going to happen one way or the other. You don't give people ammo and then talk out the side of ta neck.
 
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