I am 26 and not ready to settle down, am I behind in life?

[Mirin4rmfar]

Not that I have trouble meeting good women, just not ready to do the whole wife and kids and being lock down non sense.

Real talk all the guys under 30 I know, white, black and Hispanic are not ready . For the right woman I might be but I am not trying get married under 30 and be divorced by mid 30s lol.

 

[Yehuda]

No.

 

[aXiom]

I don't plan on settling down till 35/36... If a chick hits all the right notes before then maybe, but for now settling down is not on my to do list

 

[BlackAchilles]

Nah, that standard of tryin to find a wife in your twenties was back when nikkas could find respectable jobs just off the strength of being able bodied

 

[Poitier]

Find one by 30. The quality drops off severely afterwards.

 

[King Poetic]

No..stop basing your life on somebody else lifestyle

All my real friends are married and have kids and I don't and don't planned to

Just how I feel and the money u burned raising a family and never know if the marriage last

Good for the people who making it work, but it's not my cup of tea

 

[Taadow]

If you ain't ready, you ain't ready.


But i'll say this - even when you do think you are ready, when it happens you STILL won't be ready. lol

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

just keep watching. move when you feel accordingly. i'd never tell anyone to settle, but only to recognize goodness when it's there.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Do what's right for you. You'll know when you're ready.

 

[Breh13]

It ain't easy nowadays unless you financially stable.

Just wait till you find yourself ready and willing.

 

[L&HH]

Find one by 30. The quality drops off severely afterwards.

That's if you're after a chick the same age, no?

 

[Medio]

no. maybe revisit those thoughts in 5 years

 

[Express]

sometimes i wonder how much experience thecoli has with women

 

[The BasedFather]

fukk kids and marriage. Bachelor life.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]