I am 26 and not ready to settle down, am I behind in life?

[Sterling Archer]

Not that I have trouble meeting good women, just not ready to do the whole wife and kids and being lock down non sense.

Real talk all the guys under 30 I know, white, black and Hispanic are not ready . For the right woman I might be but I am not trying get married under 30 and be divorced by mid 30s lol.

Dont base your life decisions on other people. You're 26, thats not too young or too old to do anything. The fact is, whether or not you should settle down right now is irrelevant. The bigger issue is what type of women have you been around to be 26yrs old and NOT atleast seen a woman that is worth settling down for. Regardless of age, a woman of quality will show you what you need to see in order to think if you want to settle down. Not saying that you have to, but if you havent as much as met that type of woman to put those thoughts in your head by now, you either haven't been with enough women to know the difference, or you shouldve been more selective about the all the women you were with instead of aint shyt bytches. If your are around the right type of women, you could meet one at 19.

 

[Tom Foolery]

Why not just have a girlfriend and just let here know the deal?

Don't wait for your 30s. Trust me if you put the work in now it gets easier later on.

 

[Ashley Banks]

nikka you know the answer to this stop playing dumb

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

No need to rush... as a man u have all the time in the world

 

[Poitier]

No need to rush... as a man u have all the time in the world

Biggest lie ever told.

 

[HabitualLineSteppa]

Nah...Go head breh...You'll know when you're ready to go that route...Won't be a matter of time but mind...

Play on playa...

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

26 Is a bit young not too young but young compared to most men. You really shouldn't worry unless you truly want to get married.

 

[Dolla$]

Not that I have trouble meeting good women, just not ready to do the whole wife and kids and being lock down non sense.

Real talk all the guys under 30 I know, white, black and Hispanic are not ready . For the right woman I might be but I am not trying get married under 30 and be divorced by mid 30s lol.

That's how I feel

 

[Neuromancer]

Nope. You choose when you're ready.

 

[Express]

Why not just have a girlfriend and just let here know the deal?

Don't wait for your 30s. Trust me if you put the work in now it gets easier later on.

this

 

[DreadBrown]

Nah its not too young my father and all my uncles we're married/settled by their mid 20's.

Most breddas I know wifed up I'm 27. Do you know anyone who found a chick and settled down happily in their mid 30's?

 

[Tom Foolery]

And 26 is not young breh. You'll be 30 before you know it.
Trust me

 

[Hope]

I think old psychology teachings say 30 is the age u should be ready. Long story short, that's when u gotten enough to want to start your own.

I'm 30 and have no interesting settling. Want more things for myself before I share it with anyone else. Nobody I know is comfortable in their relationship except my parents, who've been together for 40 years.

as for people mentioning "too old/young" In most Buddhist practices, u're a youth until u're 45. Before then, u struggle sometimes, and may suffer now and then, but overall grow spiritually, and then can enjoy your peaceful old ass life lol.

 

[Poitier]

If you want kids and want a 2 parent home then heed this:

And like I said, as you age women gain more baggage. Sperm also gets weaker, too. You will never be ready and there will never be a right time so if you want it, you need to lay the foundation now.

 

[King Poetic]

Plus u 26 and black

It's going to be hard to find a sister without any kids in the 26 and up range nowadays..

And the ones who don't have kids is still hoping to find a baller especially here in lost angeles