I asked my girl via text....

OfTheCross

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But it is hard to do that when you don't have a job; don't get any sleep; and/or have no food to eat...... What she posted are the priorities of life.....
I'm talking about shyt in her down time...she has a job, food and gets sleep.

I mean damn... she's in college, she couldn't throw in "study", "network", or "make a garden", etc?

You don't plan sleep and food. Her answer was lame, methinks
 

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You framed that question wrong

You could have gotten a more accurate response if you were more specific
 

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Man breh, dump her or have a serious talk, none of her answers has any involvement of you and your happiness.
She at least could have said, trying to keep a smile on your face or make your day easier etc. Chicks these days don't cherish their man but yet want the man to wife them, but really don't understand that they are not even a good gf, be a great gf and then you can be a great wife.
Her response, if she was my gf, she would have gotten a nice cussing out from the kid.
 

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Having to go to work and having to eat and get sleep are obvious...

But our lives are what we do when we're free. She don't seem to have shyt going :francis:

She yo girl nikka, you obviously know her better than we do and have a better idea of what she does with her free time so wtf you coming to us for? :dahell:
 

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She yo girl nikka, you obviously know her better than we do and have a better idea of what she does with her free time so wtf you coming to us for? :dahell:


I love my women from a distance, bruh. I only spend time with her on weekends mostly. Through the week she might get 5-10 texts.

So who knows what she's up to :yeshrug:

I'm just tryna see if anyone else is like her(in which case maybe I'm putting too much weight on this) or if she's an unmotivated loser
 

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Ask her about any dreams she may have or had in the past if you don't already know any. And try and help her achieve these goals, make a list of what steps she needs to be taking every day. Even if she puts in 30 minutes, an hour, 2, 3 etc a day then so be it.
 

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Increase my base income, nurture my child's mind, learn new ways of investing my money
 
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