I beat my daughters ass because black people are held to higher standards- Lauryn Hill

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

Lauryn should have just written a god damn book with how long that was

Could have dropped a fukking album! I’m surprised Iyanla or Oprah or someone ain’t trying to capitalize off this drama

 

[Peter Popoff]

@thread title knowing damn well Lauryn ain't say that shyt...

How about the part about that she disciplined her daughter out of anger because her life at the time was similar to what Jews in the halocaust or runaway slaves went thru.




= she took her frustration out on her daughter .

Beat your daughter like a runaway slave brehettes

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Not talking about everyone. But we can't sit up here and lie that for every parent who has a routine of "pull down your pants" and administer exactly 5 licks and then told to reflect on what you did, you have parents out here getting mad while they are shopping because their 3 year old who is naturally curious might stray and yanking them by the arm and start wailing on the kid and maybe call them nikka or bytch for a cherry on top of destroying their child's self esteem.

The first one, you can argue is done to teach a lesson or as you said, discipline. The second, is done only because the parent is mad and frustrated in the moment because a kid isn't a perfectly quiet and obedient like a monk. The latter is abuse and happens a lot.

Lauryn put it perfectly about discipline out of anger. The question is what are you angry about and is the child just a punching bag if your anger and frustration is caused by other stress combined with the difficulties of raising a child.

Yeah I agree with this but with that being said as a child, if I was straying and grabbing things off shelves in stores without my parents telling me it was okay, I was gonna get popped

They didn't cuss at me but I'd get popped and I'd get a full whipping if I didn't stop

If my parents told me to do something, I was expected to do it or I was in the danger zone of possibly getting whipped

They didn't get me evry single time but I knew that i was in the danger zone and it could come at any time

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I hate that this is considered normal discipline in the black community. Look at the state of the black community and tell me what we’ve been doing has been working.

Let’s start with stopping all these babies out of wedlock. That tends to be a catalyst to a bunch of other problem.

And people in general raise their children the way they were raised. Very few people can admit they have issues, and won’t admit their parents could have been better. Some kids may need to be spanked, but that should be a last resort.

Kids don’t feel like they can go to their parents to talk about things, because they are afraid of them. And as you can see, you get beaten, then beat your kids. I think it depends on the kids, and the offense.

 

[get these nets]

@Get These Nets is Lauren’s daughter still a spoiled brat?

Ok, since you wanted my attention

What new info came out that was supposed to change my take on this story?

Smilies ain't it, fam. Confusing me for somebody else.

 

[Thegospel]

All those excuses.

and if you don't have kids you shouldn't even be commenting on this shyt to keep it 100.

 

[86\*/98]

I'm getting old as fukk.

I remember that girl from years ago singing on a youtube video I think she was 12 or so and I was at least 25 then. Now she's talking about relationships she's been in and shyt.

 

[8====D]

"Said you'd be there for me, there for me, there for me"

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

I see a lot of black parents doing this and it is most likely causing some mental issues we see in black children as it relates to anger and emotional stability. Violence is normalized and what do you think that does from a socialization aspect?

Every race whooped their kids....... Africans. Asians, Indiana, White, all....... whooping kids for bad behavior when their young does not normalize violence

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

I hate that this is considered normal discipline in the black community. Look at the state of the black community and tell me what we’ve been doing has been working.

it has absolutely worked.... Your perspective is limited... We’ve been here 500 years strong when we should’ve been wiped out or an afterthought long ago.... You fortify that type of resilience, steadfastness, and discipline...... and using corporal punishment helped do that

 

[SunZoo]

Yes, black kids ESPECIALLY need whipping because standards!

Jesus fukking christ.

 

[Elle Driver]

There’s a particular toxicity between black mothers and daughters.

 

[Dr. Acula]

Every race whooped their kids....... Africans. Asians, Indiana, White, all....... whooping kids for bad behavior when their young does not normalize violence

Not denying it at all. I think there is a difference, between doing it out of discipline and doing it out of frustration. Again, we can't sit up here and pretend there isnt plenty of examples of the latter. I really hate seeing it being done in conjuction calling little boys nikkas and girls bytches too which I've seen a lot. Not going to compare against races. Just talking about us. Also, I know you can't say im lying about there being a culture of glorifying whipping as if it's being cheered and laughed at instead of viewed as a "neccesary evil". In the other thread folks were talking about how more kids need their ass beat with smileys. As if they get some proxy sadistic pleasure of seeing someone else get beat and cheer it from the sidelines.

 

[Phantom Dreamer]

"Said you'd be there for me, there for me, there for me"

 

[Elle Driver]

it has absolutely worked.... Your perspective is limited... We’ve been here 500 years strong when we should’ve been wiped out or an afterthought long ago.... You fortify that type of resilience, steadfastness, and discipline...... and using corporal punishment helped do that

It “helped” at the expense of our mental health.