I boiled down the main problem of incels.

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I didnt say you have to compete againts other men , but there's a reason threads are made of IG hoes and not the fat chick around the block.
people rate others subconsciously. People have different values in society. Someone like lebron james aint seen the same as the average barber.

It shouldn’t matter if people choose LeBron over the barber, TO the barber. If he got his business straight, a good unit, and has maxed out on potential, then all that shyt doesn’t matter.

well , if you as a men are a 5-6 ...and going after women that are 9s and 10s ...you about to have a bad time big fella.
You do realize these 8s and 9s are getting plowed by these 5s and 4s, right? You do know most of these 8s and 9s don’t go on dates or even have attention because advice like that has nikkas scared to talk to em, right? That’s some defeated ass logic to go by.
 

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a lot of these incels are educated dudes with good jobs. in fact theres a direct correlation between education level and inceldom. Dudes with only a high school diploma are the LEAST likely to be incel

some of those dudes have mental issues, or are considered weird looking . They are also going after women that are out of their league. That's why they have memes of 'stacys' and 'chads'.
you can always expect to find someone when you date down or at your level.
 

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Isnt this blackpill, Like a defeatist redpill ideology

Its the hard truth . Some people need to take a hard look at themselves in the mirror.
There's a lot of talks on the coli about how women dont bring nothing to the table , but the same can be said about men as well :yeshrug:

a lot of dudes here be working at amazon or other dead end jobs (or not working at all) and then be upset that only busted women be paying them attention ( if they are at all).
 

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this was a waste of brain power.
i'll give you 10 rep per day until january 31st if you use the time you had for this thread to boil down how to structure a real estate fund. if you do that for me/TLR, it's like 280 rep to you... for the same amount of thought you put into the op but more useful. pm me if youre interested :ld:
 

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I usually keeps me a chick or two

Getting older now

Broken hearted by what should be a simple FWB situ

I actually finally went on a couple dates with a new chick. Unlike my younger self, puzzy is not the end all be all. The right chick - like the one I am pining for - can make life brighter, but if the puzz is mediocre then it can actually not be worth the effort.

I ended up spending most of 2021 with the dry dikc.... And wasn't super broken up about it. Turning down bishes and such
 

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Y’all’s obsession with these weird cultures is weird into itself, you realize that right?

like why are you sitting there studying virgins on Friday night? Get some bytches
 

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a woman that you think is 10/10 might view you as a 5/10
a woman that you think is 10/10 might view you as a 10/10
a woman that you think is 1/10 might view you as a 10/10
a woman that you think is 1/10 might view you as 1/10


you could put the best burger in front of a vegetarian and they'd be like :scust:

too many women in the world the odds are in your favor
 

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Stop parroting feminine babble saying men who struggle dating are always shooting so far out of their league. Most will not encounter true 9s let alone attempt to get with them.
of course most men dont encounter 9s and 10s , but they do encounter them online. I see it all the time when i open a coli thread about some IG hoe.

im only talking about personal experience. When i was in college, i only had a retail job so why would attempt to talk to some woman that i perceived as a 9 or 10 when she's being talk to by dudes that are higher on the totem pole?
i was able to graduate last month , and looking at landing a 6 figure job. now im about to start talking to the same women that are being flown out (of course, i wouldn't settle down with any of them) .

men and women rate each other differently. Men mostly do it based on looks . That is why a woman like bria myles is considered a 9 or 10 here on the coli.
while women are more diverse on rating men ...some do it based on income ...some based on looks and some based on both.
 

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this was a waste of brain power.
i'll give you 10 rep per day until january 31st if you use the time you had for this thread to boil down how to structure a real estate fund. if you do that for me/TLR, it's like 280 rep to you... for the same amount of thought you put into the op but more useful. pm me if youre interested :ld:
i can show you my website or github instead :yeshrug:
its on the software development thread on higher learning.
how much rep is that worth?
 

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a woman that you think is 10/10 might view you as a 5/10
a woman that you think is 10/10 might view you as a 10/10
a woman that you think is 1/10 might view you as a 10/10
a woman that you think is 1/10 might view you as 1/10


you could put the best burger in front of a vegetarian and they'd be like :scust:

too many women in the world the odds are in your favor
True. Women are hard to decipher what each one of them considers what a 10 is.
They does seem to be general requirements though.

while most men (at least of the same race) tend to find the same women attractive.
 

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i can show you my website or github instead :yeshrug:
its on the software development thread on higher learning.
how much rep is that worth?
none. that's something you already do. i'd still like to see your website though; what do you do?
 

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a lot of these incels are educated dudes with good jobs. in fact theres a direct correlation between education level and inceldom. Dudes with only a high school diploma are the LEAST likely to be incel
This...my droughts were during the grinding phase (Post-secondary education, 80 hr weeks of grinding, development of new projects). Hood dudes have a LOT of free time to cake on the phone, workout and put outfits together.

Now its easy mode. 26+ yo women are easy after 8+ years of working and realizing that this ain't it.
 

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none. that's something you already do. i'd still like to see your website though; what do you do?
im a software developer. just graduated with a degree on computer science.
This was just a project to show future employers.

Here's another update on my project since some of yall seem interested :smile:

Some parts still need to be style , and i still have to complete the profile and community section.
Also add the ability to comment, which ill probably do tomorrow.

i was stressed out at first but once i got through the biggest obstacle , everything else has been smooth sailing.

ill also try to host this on AWS sometime next week , and give yall the link.

Thanks to all for the encouragement as well.


 
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