I Cannot Believe The Reactions To This, Man asks date to split the check with him

Luke Cage

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a date isn't some guarantee she's gonna fall in love with you.You're testing the chemistry. If it ain't working Chalk it up and move on.
I usually like to do something fun anyways instead of just a meal. So if we go to a concert together and she aint feeling me, at least i had a good time and some company.
 

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Do people not realize some women use men for food? There's no reason a man should be entitled to pay the entire bill on the first date, just like a woman shouldn't be entitled to give up p*ssy on the 1st date.

Now if it's the 3rd date and y'all obviously vibing then that's when you treat each other.
 

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These arguments always come down to "if you ask them out, you should pay"

Ok. Whatever.
I take my wife out. I pay because I want to.

However....
I haven't ever heard a single good reason by women why they should have a problem with splitting a check.

Explain how splitting a check is unfair to you.
 

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When it comes to women, I'm of the mindset of "why complicate shyt." Brehs are wasting MAD time trying to convince the vast majority of women out here to split checks on dates. It's too ingrained in their brains at this point that men who introduce this idea are"unworthy" and "cheap."

Instead, I'd much rather circumvent the whole thing and do things/go places that won't have me whining if I have to pay for the whole thing.
 

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On one hand, if you ask someone out, you should expect to treat them. On the other hand, why pay if the date isn’t going well and you don’t care what they’ll think of you afterwards?
THIS! Generally speaking if a man asks a woman out then he needs to pay.If you have to ask for a woman to split the bill then you should have never asked her out
 
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