I Cannot Believe The Reactions To This, Man asks date to split the check with him

[BlaqkSpliffin]

a date isn't some guarantee she's gonna fall in love with you.You're testing the chemistry. If it ain't working Chalk it up and move on.
I usually like to do something fun anyways instead of just a meal. So if we go to a concert together and she aint feeling me, at least i had a good time and some company.

THANK YOU BREH! I don't like leaving my crib for boring nutshyt just for a woman. If I going on a date I wanna do some shyt thats worth my time that I'm gonna enjoy. Normally women are happy with those situations too cause it makes them think you putting in extra effort when really I just wanted to try some new shyt out anyway.

 

[Peter Popoff]

This is the reason why I don't ask women to dates. I rather just hook up at bars or meet them in school, work, church where the setting is neutral and you know what you're getting into. Dating sites are strictly for hookups. Courting and dining is equivalent to paying for an escort with the possibility of getting some p*ssy.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Usually when I’m on a date and I don’t feel that there is any chance of a relationship, I’d voluntarily pay, but honestly if you ask someone out, it is kind of expected that who ever did the asking does the treating. If I asked a guy out, I’d expect to pay for him.

 

[Luke Cage]

THANK YOU BREH! I don't like leaving my crib for boring nutshyt just for a woman. If I going on a date I wanna do some shyt thats worth my time that I'm gonna enjoy. Normally women are happy with those situations too cause it makes them think you putting in extra effort when really I just wanted to try some new shyt out anyway.

Truth,

Usually i'm just looking for an excuse to go to a movie or carnival or some shyt, so i don't have to go by myself. If i get some p*ssy at the end of the night, all the better.

 

[Berry]

There’s nothing wrong with splitting the bill, especially on the first date. I think what seems off here is that the knowledge that the relationship will not progress caused the desire to split the bill, insinuating that if a second date was agreed upon he would’ve paid lol.

Also it is a norm, as shown by the man that told the lady to run, there is an expectation that one thing the man does is pay. So it comes down to whether you are a woman who wants to find a man who follows that norm, or if you are a man who wants a woman who cares less for that norm.

 

[Luke Cage]

This is the reason why I don't ask women to dates. I rather just hook up at bars or meet them in school, work, church where the setting is neutral and you know what you're getting into. Dating sites are strictly for hookups. Courting and dining is equivalent to paying for an escort with the possibility of getting some p*ssy.

This is a good point too.

 

[Savvir]

the decision to split or not split the check should come before food is even ordered...

 

[8====D]

Dude is an idiot.

If the date was so bad, just say you have to go to the bathroom - slip out the back.

Let one of those suckers at the bar save her.

 

[Mike Nasty]

Interesting clip. The way the dude told her "to get out her wallet" is going to have everyone siding with her. And lol at all the dudes ready to step up and save a hoe, even the one dude at the called out his friend when she told him he was a gentleman.

 

[Divinity]

Clearly staged

 

[Mike Nasty]

Clearly staged

 

[MajesticLion]

- they who ask, should be prepared to pay in full
- many who advocate vociferously for the above will use it as a shield to hide behind so they never have to ask, and thus justify ongoing emotional cowardice
- hence the serial first-date types
- hence no trust going forward
- hence even if you get a 2nd date, 3rd, all the way to marriage and children, you still get the side-eye...because the other party knows what's what



How about we stop going out of our way to create obstacles for ourselves? Radical concept, I know.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

When it comes to women, I'm of the mindset of "why complicate shyt." Brehs are wasting MAD time trying to convince the vast majority of women out here to split checks on dates. It's too ingrained in their brains at this point that men who introduce this idea are"unworthy" and "cheap."

Instead, I'd much rather circumvent the whole thing and do things/go places that won't have me whining if I have to pay for the whole thing.

Facts. I just don't take women on dates. I take em on a walk and then straight to my crib.

 

[Po pimp]

Clearly staged

Well, it’s from the show “What Would You Do?”

The “daters” are actors, but the people observing are regular people.

 

[TL15]

It’s a really funny notion:

I DO NOT want to see you again

Yet

I expect that you should pay for my food.


You’re literally giving me an invitation to become a stranger in your life, and your parting gift is your 1/2 of the bill.

BUT

If I don’t pay for it, I’m not courteous.

Instead of expecting courtesy from someone you aren’t interested in, why not display courtesy and pay for what you ate. Seems fair