This is why I didn’t believe people should get married between 18-25. Let yourself mature so you can make a mature decision about wanting to start a family.
Everything she said could be true. Many people lose themselves and identity when deciding to start a family. You must build your village, have all the support you need, find joy outside of your spouse and family, and have a strong sense of self. Otherwise you become a drone and fantasize about life without your family.
Every woman should speak to as many women as possible about marriage and children before making that jump. They also should choose a partner that supports them to the fullest. Otherwise you may resent your partner, children and choice.
Family life isn’t for the weak.
