She could not make the adjustment to the new role for the new situation... the new level in the relationship.
She ain't experienced real growth, there the problem.
Most people today don't go through growth but expect to fulfill roles in situations on levels that require real growth, not social media influenced delusions of growth but real uncomfortable growth resulted outta years sacrifice, compromise and
giving up so much to
learn how to improve and adjust to the new role, the new situation, the new level.
Know what...
The divorce rate maybe so high 'cause the women initiatin' them know somethin' wrong 'bout the situation but can't see they ain't grow up... they ain't rose to the occasion of bein' a wife and married somebody who probably ain't rose to the occasion of bein' a husband.
How could a woman rise to the occasion when restin' on bein' comfortable and havin' they ego stroked by OD social media engagement and easy simpin'?
This
abstinence life 'bout self-improvement by addressin' personal flaw.
I pity the fool who quick to not learn and know what they need for self improvement to flourish on the level they workin' for.
Mama, just because you wanted to be married don't mean you was learned how to be ready for married life.
See...
She knew what she wanted but she ain't know
how to get herself there the right way and thought skippin' the needed work
for herself to find a partner so teamwork can manifest dreamwork was 'bout to be light work. Now she on social media 'nstead of seekin' self-cultivation, refinement and her partner she lookin' for that oxytocin sympathetic confirmation bias dope... hope for a new situation that ain't 'bout to fix
her and her shortcomin's.
Blame men, it ain't men job to give woman the knowledge, wisdom and understanding to be wife material, and woman ain't made wife material when she get the rock on her finger...
Because...
That rock on her ring is a weapon of family destruction in a court of law.
We all damaged lookin' for somethin'. Can't keep what you find if you ain't right for it.
Look inward, and learn from y'self and be good y'all.