I Can't Be Myself As A Wife

Diondon

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So give women the non-committment (and access to men's resources) they truly wish for
We could ban marriage tomorrow. What's up?
 

Cheese McNair

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I WISH SOCIAL MEDIA DIDNT EXIST

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It exposed society. What more could you ask for
 

Apollo Creed

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This is why I didn’t believe people should get married between 18-25. Let yourself mature so you can make a mature decision about wanted to start a family.

Everything she said could be true. Many people lose themselves and identity when deciding to start a family. You must build your village, have all the support you need, find joy outside of your spouse and family, and have a strong sense of self. Otherwise you become a drone and fantasize about life without your family.

Every woman should speak to as many women as possible about marriage and children before making that jump. They also should choose a partner that supports them to the fullest. Otherwise you may resent your partner, children and choice.

Family life isn’t for the weak.
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Legal Marriage makes zero sense. 18-25arent years of maturing it is literally ruining your life and being burnt out and trauamatized from it. The Yound couples that don't make it isn't cause they are young it's because they let the outside world via socialmedia distort their reality
 

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"I can't be my true self in marriage." Wtf does that even mean?

My wife is stressed, I book her a flight to where ever she want to go. Women have no hobbies is like the no.1 reason why they get stressed out. Most women literally have NOTHING going on in their lives. No video games, no sports, no activities other than "hanging with the girls."

Literally everything most women do is for social validation. This is why it irritates them that their men, husbands have an actual fukking life minding their business and hitting the gym, killing xenos for the Emperor, or golfing with the boys,
 

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You can’t really be authentic in life. It’s about a lot of faking it. A lot of compromise for the greater good. A lot of compromise for love also.

My true self for example would be drinking margaritas on a beach all day but that’s not realistic or practical and it would destroy everything that I truly love outside of myself.
 

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If you compromised in the relationship you lost, a woman is supposed to mold herself to fit you. If you feel the need to change yourself or she tells you to then she’s not the one for you.

You can change certain aspects about yourself but only if YOU want to. Like stopping smoking or procrastinating less. Not no dumb shyt like she cooks and you wash the dishes or whatever else bytch ass niccas get bambozzled into in the name of compromise.
 

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"I can't be my true self in marriage." Wtf does that even mean?

My wife is stressed, I book her a flight to where ever she want to go. Women have no hobbies is like the no.1 reason why they get stressed out. Most women literally have NOTHING going on in their lives. No video games, no sports, no activities other than "hanging with the girls."

Literally everything most women do is for social validation. This is why it irritates them that their men, husbands have an actual fukking life minding their business and hitting the gym, killing xenos for the Emperor, or golfing with the boys,

Lmfao breh I went out with chick and she legit said she had no hobbies. Lotta dudes be so blinded for sex they do t really listen. To what's being presented and most women are WEIRD AS fukk
 

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She could not make the adjustment to the new role for the new situation... the new level in the relationship.

She ain't experienced real growth, there the problem.
Most people today don't go through growth but expect to fulfill roles in situations on levels that require real growth, not social media influenced delusions of growth but real uncomfortable growth resulted outta years sacrifice, compromise and giving up so much to learn how to improve and adjust to the new role, the new situation, the new level.

Know what...
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The divorce rate maybe so high 'cause the women initiatin' them know somethin' wrong 'bout the situation but can't see they ain't grow up... they ain't rose to the occasion of bein' a wife and married somebody who probably ain't rose to the occasion of bein' a husband.
How could a woman rise to the occasion when restin' on bein' comfortable and havin' they ego stroked by OD social media engagement and easy simpin'?

This abstinence life 'bout self-improvement by addressin' personal flaw.
I pity the fool who quick to not learn and know what they need for self improvement to flourish on the level they workin' for.

Mama, just because you wanted to be married don't mean you was learned how to be ready for married life.

See...
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She knew what she wanted but she ain't know how to get herself there the right way and thought skippin' the needed work for herself to find a partner so teamwork can manifest dreamwork was 'bout to be light work. Now she on social media 'nstead of seekin' self-cultivation, refinement and her partner she lookin' for that oxytocin sympathetic confirmation bias dope... hope for a new situation that ain't 'bout to fix her and her shortcomin's.

Blame men, it ain't men job to give woman the knowledge, wisdom and understanding to be wife material, and woman ain't made wife material when she get the rock on her finger...

Because...
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That rock on her ring is a weapon of family destruction in a court of law.
We all damaged lookin' for somethin'. Can't keep what you find if you ain't right for it.


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Look inward, and learn from y'self and be good y'all.
 

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:mjlol: get married brehette

Think marriage is a goal and nothing besides a stat :mjlol:
Be programmed to accomplish a goal without realizing the work it takes to continue brehette :mjlol:

Meanwhile her husband is loving life and the kids are too. This bytch is gonna burn the house down and she needs supervision.

If this is your hoe :scust:come and get her
:damn: come and get her now

:scust: content creator hoes
 
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