I can’t believe y’all are going on these dating apps posting profiles like this! Then y’all get mad when you get no responses!!

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I agree with this. Dating apps tend to attract the socially maladjusted or the people nobody wants who are delusional.
Dating apps weren't always fukked up until they became accessible to everyone.

I got hip to College Club and Black planet. College Club was cool cuz it was other people in college and social media didn't corrupt women's minds.

They were legitimately looking for mates to build with. It was always a good tool until around the 2010s when smartphones and apps gave everyone access
 

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Well a lot of men don't have friends like that in general but you're expecting them to have female friends too? It helps when you got female family members who are close to your age but I think a lot of female friends come from work and being out where men and women both congregate. A lot of dudes work male dominant professions or even wfh. You won't meet female friends there and if you're really tapped in with women like that you'd treat these apps like a game just like they do and be out approaching

If you want to be a more whole person your friend group should have different perspectives. If it's only male perspectives then your going to be more uninformed about half the species. If you can't/won't make friends with a woman without wanting to fuk her it means you see women as a sex object first and a person second.

Not having or not being able to make friends "like that" but you're trying to fuk a woman is like not knowing arithmetic but trying to do algebra. Might be why alot of these guys are legit fuking up.

Trying to fuk women when you dont have any understanding of them (or any decent social skills) from actual women seems stupid as fuk to me. Its like wanting the white collar job but not wanting to go to school.
Its not hard making friends with women if youre half way social and look at then like theyre just people first and not sex objects. Women as a gender arent any more special than men they jusy have to navigate the world different and typically socialize different because of that. If you gotta use your job to make most of youre friends it mean your social life revolves your job and that aint healthy either. Brehs can't legit get mad at women because they dont fuk, but dude himself is too weird to make friends properly.

Trying to smash when your social skills are ass is going to have you dealing with trash/mid females or lonely.
 
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women have garbage bin barely filled out accounts to

who cares
Right.

It's a sellers market. Women have profiles with literally nothing but pics sometimes, or they focus on negatives that they don't want giving zero insightful into their personality or interests. If she look good enough men are still swiping (this will be true for some men too)
I'm sure it's dumb ass tone deaf men on these apps but the average guy hopefully is smart enough to attempt to sell himself. Women can put in zero effort and still be "successful"
 

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If you want to be a more whole person you friend group should have different perspectives. If you can make friends with a woman without wanting to fuk her it means you see women as a sex object first and a person second.

Not having or not being able to make friends "like that" but you're trying to fuk a woman is like not knowing arithmetic but trying to do algebra. Might be why alot of these guys are legit fuking up.

Trying to fuk women when you dont have any understanding of them (or any decent social skills) from actual women seems stupid as fuk to me. Its like wanting the white collar job but not wanting to go to school.
Its not hard making friends with women if youre half way social and look at then like theyre just people first and not sex objects. Women as a gender arent any more special than men they jusy have to navigate the world different and typically socialize different because of that. If you gotta use your job to make most of youre friends it mean your social life revolves your job and that aint healthy either. Brehs can't legit get mad at women because they dont fuk, but dude himself is too weird to make friends properly.
If you want be a more whole person? Dawg there's lot of different types of people in this world what you consider a "whole person" someone else would not. You really don't have to do none of that. There's a loneliness epidemic among young men and you wanna come in here saying its just "oh he's too weird to make friends" or "oh his friend group is not diverse enough" or this and that. As you get older most new people are going to be acquaintances anyways.
These are normal guys man we aren't talking incels and misogynists. Some people are homebodies. Some people are not extroverted or don't make friends easily thats ok.
But they're "just too weird to make friends properly" nah that's bullshyt. Some couples dont even have friends outside of each other but they are happy. So these people were "too weird to make friends" so they shouldn't be with each other?
No its more so like attracts like. Besides the parts about not looking at all women as sex objects and realizing they are just people, what you're saying is just biased toward extroversion. You don't need a bunch of female or male friends to smash chicks consistently. There's "weirdos" with no friends running through a bunch of chicks out here man. These dudes just lame and horny.
 

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I agree with this to a point, but alot of men will do shxt based on what their friend said "works". Alot of guys got on Hinge only because of that, so they dont really know what they're doing. Or some shxt will work 1 time in 50 so they'll keep doing it thinking it "worked".

Running game over being yourself is always going to end in some Bullshxt. If you have to finesse your way into some p$$y there's a good chance you need to look in the mirror.

Reality is these guys probably dont have any real female friends, probably dont interact with women on any real level unless they are trying to fuk, and get everything they know about a woman from another guy (who probably aint a good example), then wonder why shxt dont work.

All three of those profiles are tragic as fuk if you're looking for a woman that is more peace than problems. Coli brehs definitely on Hinge.

:pachaha:
I only saw the first one. And I know for a fact he drowning in ratchet p*ssy on tinder.

Yall don’t know how to tell the difference between goofy nikkas with no game. And miggas who know exactly what they are doing.
 

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If you want be a more whole person? Dawg there's lot of different types of people in this world what you consider a "whole person" someone else would not. You really don't have to do none of that. There's a loneliness epidemic among young men and you wanna come in here saying its just "oh he's too weird to make friends" or "oh his friend group is not diverse enough" or this and that. As you get older most new people are going to be acquaintances anyways.
These are normal guys man we aren't talking incels and misogynists. Some people are homebodies. Some people are not extroverted or don't make friends easily thats ok.
But they're "just too weird to make friends properly" nah that's bullshyt. Some couples dont even have friends outside of each other but they are happy. So these people were "too weird to make friends" so they shouldn't be with each other?
No its more so like attracts like. Besides the parts about not looking at all women as sex objects and realizing they are just people, what you're saying is just biased toward extroversion. You don't need a bunch of female or male friends to smash chicks consistently. There's "weirdos" with no friends running through a bunch of chicks out here man. These dudes just lame and horny.

There are more ways for men to connect with women than there have ever been in the history of the planet. There are more people in America than there have ever been. If you're lonely (friendless) its either a choice or a socialization issue and for alot of these lonely boys its a fixable problem if they want. These boys know how to bullshxt on their phones all day and talk shxt online but its a loneliness epidemic? Nah. Its also is irrelevant to the fact that if you want a higher chance of smashing it helps if you know how to socialize and you are willing to leave your house.

Im an introvert. That bend has very little to do with whether you have the socialization skills to connect with other people. Boys want social skills muscle but they dont want to hit the gym. It doesn't work like that.

Im saying if you want to understand women it helps to have female friends because they know what being a woman is like better than men do. Is required, no. But how else are you going to understand women if they only time your really talk to them is when you want to fuk? That literally does not work for any other social construct.

I only saw the first one. And I know for a fact he drowning in ratchet p*ssy on tinder.

Yall don’t know how to tell the difference between goofy nikkas with no game. And miggas who know exactly what they are doing.

Boys can drown in car parts at the junkyard too, but all you're going to find there is salvage titles. Tinder is the trash site of dating apps, its like going to the landfill for recycling cans. "Swimming in p$$y on Tinder" is like saying you can eat 5 plates at Golden Corral. That experience is designed for a cheap, low quality meal, that is going to contribute negatively to your life, that makes you feel satisfied.


Would you rather rent 25 hyundai elantras OR a Mclaren GT and a Ferrari Roma? Total price for both options is the same but that experience is very different.

:jbhmm:

How many females you fuking is some college boy shxt, running numbers up is easy. Quality of the women is what men who are trying to protect their peace are focused on. And thats not on some marriage shxt thats not just on some who chose to spend time with.
 

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There are more ways for men to connect with women than there have ever been in the history of the planet. There are more people in America than there have ever been. If you're lonely (friendless) its either a choice or a socialization issue and for alot of these lonely boys its a fixable problem if they want. These boys know how to bullshxt on their phones all day and talk shxt online but its a loneliness epidemic? Nah. Its also is irrelevant to the fact that if you want a higher chance of smashing it helps if you know how to socialize and you are willing to leave your house.

Im an introvert. That bend has very little to do with whether you have the socialization skills to connect with other people. Boys want social skills muscle but they dont want to hit the gym. It doesn't work like that.

Im saying if you want to understand women it helps to have female friends because they know what being a woman is like better than men do. Is required, no. But how else are you going to understand women if they only time your really talk to them is when you want to fuk? That literally does not work for any other social construct.



Boys can drown in car parts at the junkyard too, but all you're going to find there is salvage titles. Tinder is the trash site of dating apps, its like going to the landfill for recycling cans. "Swimming in p$$y on Tinder" is like saying you can eat 5 plates at Golden Corral. That experience is designed for a cheap, low quality meal, that is going to contribute negatively to your life, that makes you feel satisfied.


Would you rather rent 25 hyundai elantras OR a Mclaren GT and a Ferrari Roma? Total price for both options is the same but that experience is very different.

:jbhmm:

How many females you fuking is some college boy shxt, running numbers up is easy. Quality of the women is what men who are trying to protect their peace are focused on. And thats not on some marriage shxt thats not just on some who chose to spend time with.
What I would rather do when I’m dating has nothing to do with understanding why a nikka who is trying to fukk with a bunch of randoms would make a profile that would attract random bytches who want to fukk.

You’re trying to make this a moral dilemma instead of applauding a nikka for being absolutely straightforward and honest with what he’s looking for.

You should have a problem with nikkas lying about wanting meaningful relationships and just playing with chicks head.

Dude in the OP was real about what he’s there for.

:yeshrug:

I can’t hate off that alone.
 
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