I can't make friends.

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FUKK friends cuz in danger them nikkas change/puff weed and stuff g's in my sock g/car keys and Hennessy were the glock be

Times passin will I last here another day/I put my gun away and grab my ak/It's gettin hectic I can't call it house full of alcoholics now a nikkas under pressure

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All you have to do is open up......Show genuine interest in other people. Dont be afraid of small talk.
 

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The only friendsI have are the extroverted type.

For soem reason since elementary school to my adult hood extroverts always wanna hang around/talk with me.

I have no problem with it but some of these people are "out there".
 

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I feel you. It's hard to make friends the older you get.

I don't drink, but drinking seems to get people friends. Maybe go to happy hours more and loosen up a bit and get to know people outside of work settings.

Or do some volunteer work. You could make friends that way, and help out a good cause.
 

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If you're a guy - Make more money.
If you're a girl - Make yourself look better/more available.

Those are the quick/shallow ways.

But the only real way to find real friends is to go out and do some activities that you really like and be sociable, then you'll make some friends.


..........and you'll meet some dope women too. :takedat:
 

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it's more complicated, but basically you make friends based off--

1) Proximity - the more you see and interact with people, the more likely you will become friends
2) Familiarity - the more people see a neutral object, the more they grow to like it
3) Similarity - shared demographics, attitudes, values, personality traits, and communication styles
4) Reciprocity - people like people who also like them (exchange of respect)

people who struggle to make friends usually struggle with one of these aspects

you asked for help? so my suggestion is to identify which one and try to improve it
that might involve overcome social anxiety (or shyness) and get out more
moving to a place where you are a more natural fit
etc., etc.
 
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