I can't stop thinking about the guy that my wife slept with. Does it ever get better?

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Love is ultimately cursed by monogamy. No matter how faithful you want to stay to your other half, your built-in genetic impulse is telling you to spread your genes as much as you can. And so thoughts of cheating inevitably plant themselves in your head. Some follow through, some don't.

Having said that, we are sentient fukking beings and we are smarter than base animals giving in to impulse. We have the ability to plan ahead. Do things that don't seem great now but will make sense later.

Which is why if my future wife cheats it's probably either instant bushes or I'm going on a smashing spree to even it up. Def gonna smash some of her friends :birdman:
 

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My wife is having an online affair with a convicted child killer (and many other men) - Talk About Marriage

"My (36M) wife (27F) and I have been married for 5 years. We have a 3 year old son together and I have a son and daughter from a previous marriage. About 3 months ago, I noticed my wife beginning to act strangely. She started ignoring me, spending less time with the kids, spending excessive amounts of time on her phone, taking 1-2 hour showers every night, staying up until 1-2am every night, keeping her phone fingerprint locked, and keeping her phone on her at all times. She wan't interested in sex at all, which was odd because she is a very sexual person and our sex life was very healthy. She had been having some health issues around that time so I chalked it up to that. She came to me one day early in this process and said that she was really stressed out and needed a weekend to herself. She planned a trip to a cabin 3 hours away. At that point I knew something was up, so about 8 weeks ago, I started digging.

Using an old phone of hers and thanks to Google Photos, I found nude photos of her, pics of another man, and screenshots of Kik messenger conversations with multiple men. I also found a secondary email of hers that had emails confirming usernames for Swiftchat, Snapchat, Voxer, and Skype. Overall, she has had explicit sexual conversations and exchanged nude photos/videos with over 15 different men on Snapchat, Swiftchat, and Kik. She has had sexual audio conversations on Voxer with 2 different men. She has had "video chat sex" on Skype with 2 other men. I have screenshots and proof of all of it.

Out of all of these men, she has one "main guy" that she "loves." She confesses her love for him multiple times daily. She texts him day and night on Kik. They exchange masturbation pics and videos very often. Before her trip to the cabin, I confirmed that she had planned the trip to meet her main guy, but he had decided not to come because he didn't want to start their relationship that way. She went on the trip, got drunk, and did all of the above in a major way. As far as I can tell she didn't meet anyone at the cabin or at any other time. Since the trip, she has continued the same behavior. About a week ago, I setup a phone under our bed to do voice recording. My wife works part time, so she is at home with our son every afternoon by 1pm. I now have listened to 2 skype sessions with her main guy in which she says "I love you" multiple times and masturbates to climax (very loudly) while my son sleeps in the next room. It is soul crushing to listen to.

While she was on her trip, I figured out her main guy's last name. I searched his name and found out that he had just been released from prison in November. He was convicted and sentenced to 25 years in prison for killing his girlfriend's toddler son. He spent 2 years in jail until he won his appeal due to a juror issue and got a mistrial. He has a new trial in May. After she came back from her trip, I confronted my wife about her odd behavior and phone records indicating that she had called this man multiple times. She denied that anything was odd and that she had never talked to him. I told her what I found out about him. I said his name, showed her his mugshot, and showed her his criminal history. She didn't seem interested and said "why would I talk to someone who killed a child when I have a child?" Apparently she didn't know his background. For the next couple of days she searched the internet and viewed all of the websites concerning his case. I thought that would be the end of it. I was dead wrong. They now talk about their future life together- marriage, kids, happiness. She sends him pictures and videos daily of my son. My wife refers to her main guy as my son's "step-dad" and talks about how she can't wait for them to meet.

My wife has told many of her "men" that she is married to a jerk and that because I don't give her enough attention, she is looking for it elsewhere. She doesn't seem to think that what she is doing is "cheating" since she hasn't met any of them.

I consulted my lawyer (before I found out her main guy's criminal background) and he said that I could file for divorce and custody, but her behavior wouldn't play a big role in custody unless I could prove negligence.

Here is my question. How do I confront her? I have waited this long without giving away my knowledge so that I could gather as much information as possible for the potential divorce and custody battle. Do I give her one chance to confess and make things right and try to work things out? Do I tell her I know everything? Do I tell her that if she wants to go live with a child murderer, go ahead, but my son won't be going with her? What happens when/if she denies everything? Because of my children, I am willing to give her one chance to stop this behavior. If there were no children involved, I would have kicked her out on day 1.
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My wife is having an online affair with a convicted child killer (and many other men) - Talk About Marriage

"My (36M) wife (27F) and I have been married for 5 years. We have a 3 year old son together and I have a son and daughter from a previous marriage. About 3 months ago, I noticed my wife beginning to act strangely. She started ignoring me, spending less time with the kids, spending excessive amounts of time on her phone, taking 1-2 hour showers every night, staying up until 1-2am every night, keeping her phone fingerprint locked, and keeping her phone on her at all times. She wan't interested in sex at all, which was odd because she is a very sexual person and our sex life was very healthy. She had been having some health issues around that time so I chalked it up to that. She came to me one day early in this process and said that she was really stressed out and needed a weekend to herself. She planned a trip to a cabin 3 hours away. At that point I knew something was up, so about 8 weeks ago, I started digging.

Using an old phone of hers and thanks to Google Photos, I found nude photos of her, pics of another man, and screenshots of Kik messenger conversations with multiple men. I also found a secondary email of hers that had emails confirming usernames for Swiftchat, Snapchat, Voxer, and Skype. Overall, she has had explicit sexual conversations and exchanged nude photos/videos with over 15 different men on Snapchat, Swiftchat, and Kik. She has had sexual audio conversations on Voxer with 2 different men. She has had "video chat sex" on Skype with 2 other men. I have screenshots and proof of all of it.

Out of all of these men, she has one "main guy" that she "loves." She confesses her love for him multiple times daily. She texts him day and night on Kik. They exchange masturbation pics and videos very often. Before her trip to the cabin, I confirmed that she had planned the trip to meet her main guy, but he had decided not to come because he didn't want to start their relationship that way. She went on the trip, got drunk, and did all of the above in a major way. As far as I can tell she didn't meet anyone at the cabin or at any other time. Since the trip, she has continued the same behavior. About a week ago, I setup a phone under our bed to do voice recording. My wife works part time, so she is at home with our son every afternoon by 1pm. I now have listened to 2 skype sessions with her main guy in which she says "I love you" multiple times and masturbates to climax (very loudly) while my son sleeps in the next room. It is soul crushing to listen to.

While she was on her trip, I figured out her main guy's last name. I searched his name and found out that he had just been released from prison in November. He was convicted and sentenced to 25 years in prison for killing his girlfriend's toddler son. He spent 2 years in jail until he won his appeal due to a juror issue and got a mistrial. He has a new trial in May. After she came back from her trip, I confronted my wife about her odd behavior and phone records indicating that she had called this man multiple times. She denied that anything was odd and that she had never talked to him. I told her what I found out about him. I said his name, showed her his mugshot, and showed her his criminal history. She didn't seem interested and said "why would I talk to someone who killed a child when I have a child?" Apparently she didn't know his background. For the next couple of days she searched the internet and viewed all of the websites concerning his case. I thought that would be the end of it. I was dead wrong. They now talk about their future life together- marriage, kids, happiness. She sends him pictures and videos daily of my son. My wife refers to her main guy as my son's "step-dad" and talks about how she can't wait for them to meet.

My wife has told many of her "men" that she is married to a jerk and that because I don't give her enough attention, she is looking for it elsewhere. She doesn't seem to think that what she is doing is "cheating" since she hasn't met any of them.


I consulted my lawyer (before I found out her main guy's criminal background) and he said that I could file for divorce and custody, but her behavior wouldn't play a big role in custody unless I could prove negligence.


Here is my question. How do I confront her? I have waited this long without giving away my knowledge so that I could gather as much information as possible for the potential divorce and custody battle. Do I give her one chance to confess and make things right and try to work things out? Do I tell her I know everything? Do I tell her that if she wants to go live with a child murderer, go ahead, but my son won't be going with her? What happens when/if she denies everything? Because of my children, I am willing to give her one chance to stop this behavior. If there were no children involved, I would have kicked her out on day 1.
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This story right here is another prime example as to why men should never, ever get married! The courts are so in favor of the women & against the men in regards to custody of the kids that based on a lawyers advice (supposedly)a married women with 3 children cavorting with a known felon imprisoned for killing a kid isn't even grounds for "negligence"

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My wife is having an online affair with a convicted child killer (and many other men) - Talk About Marriage

"My (36M) wife (27F) and I have been married for 5 years. We have a 3 year old son together and I have a son and daughter from a previous marriage. About 3 months ago, I noticed my wife beginning to act strangely. She started ignoring me, spending less time with the kids, spending excessive amounts of time on her phone, taking 1-2 hour showers every night, staying up until 1-2am every night, keeping her phone fingerprint locked, and keeping her phone on her at all times. She wan't interested in sex at all, which was odd because she is a very sexual person and our sex life was very healthy. She had been having some health issues around that time so I chalked it up to that. She came to me one day early in this process and said that she was really stressed out and needed a weekend to herself. She planned a trip to a cabin 3 hours away. At that point I knew something was up, so about 8 weeks ago, I started digging.

Using an old phone of hers and thanks to Google Photos, I found nude photos of her, pics of another man, and screenshots of Kik messenger conversations with multiple men. I also found a secondary email of hers that had emails confirming usernames for Swiftchat, Snapchat, Voxer, and Skype. Overall, she has had explicit sexual conversations and exchanged nude photos/videos with over 15 different men on Snapchat, Swiftchat, and Kik. She has had sexual audio conversations on Voxer with 2 different men. She has had "video chat sex" on Skype with 2 other men. I have screenshots and proof of all of it.

Out of all of these men, she has one "main guy" that she "loves." She confesses her love for him multiple times daily. She texts him day and night on Kik. They exchange masturbation pics and videos very often. Before her trip to the cabin, I confirmed that she had planned the trip to meet her main guy, but he had decided not to come because he didn't want to start their relationship that way. She went on the trip, got drunk, and did all of the above in a major way. As far as I can tell she didn't meet anyone at the cabin or at any other time. Since the trip, she has continued the same behavior. About a week ago, I setup a phone under our bed to do voice recording. My wife works part time, so she is at home with our son every afternoon by 1pm. I now have listened to 2 skype sessions with her main guy in which she says "I love you" multiple times and masturbates to climax (very loudly) while my son sleeps in the next room. It is soul crushing to listen to.

While she was on her trip, I figured out her main guy's last name. I searched his name and found out that he had just been released from prison in November. He was convicted and sentenced to 25 years in prison for killing his girlfriend's toddler son. He spent 2 years in jail until he won his appeal due to a juror issue and got a mistrial. He has a new trial in May. After she came back from her trip, I confronted my wife about her odd behavior and phone records indicating that she had called this man multiple times. She denied that anything was odd and that she had never talked to him. I told her what I found out about him. I said his name, showed her his mugshot, and showed her his criminal history. She didn't seem interested and said "why would I talk to someone who killed a child when I have a child?" Apparently she didn't know his background. For the next couple of days she searched the internet and viewed all of the websites concerning his case. I thought that would be the end of it. I was dead wrong. They now talk about their future life together- marriage, kids, happiness. She sends him pictures and videos daily of my son. My wife refers to her main guy as my son's "step-dad" and talks about how she can't wait for them to meet.

My wife has told many of her "men" that she is married to a jerk and that because I don't give her enough attention, she is looking for it elsewhere. She doesn't seem to think that what she is doing is "cheating" since she hasn't met any of them.

I consulted my lawyer (before I found out her main guy's criminal background) and he said that I could file for divorce and custody, but her behavior wouldn't play a big role in custody unless I could prove negligence.

Here is my question. How do I confront her? I have waited this long without giving away my knowledge so that I could gather as much information as possible for the potential divorce and custody battle. Do I give her one chance to confess and make things right and try to work things out? Do I tell her I know everything? Do I tell her that if she wants to go live with a child murderer, go ahead, but my son won't be going with her? What happens when/if she denies everything? Because of my children, I am willing to give her one chance to stop this behavior. If there were no children involved, I would have kicked her out on day 1.
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I can just imagine what she was thinking when he started crying

Joann: "thinking to self" Look at this lil dikk nikka cry :mjlol: nikka soft in more ways than one:usure:
Cody: You know I think we gon be alright:sadbron:

After a female do you dirt like that you left with very few options

A. fukk her like a dog . . I mean disrespectful type of shyt, if she the mother of your children after you done fukking her make her feel like the bytch from the motel oh and of course you leave the hoe

B. Tell her call a close relative cause shes homeless
C. Look at her calmly and relaxed as possible and say "you know we have to tell the kids:youngsabo:" even if ya'll married and she win all those little court battles the way those kids will view her for tearing up that family structure will make it all worth it:salute:

Nothing like sitting on that couch and saying

Cody: kids can you come here a minute mommy and daddy have to speak to you:banderas:
Cody: Mommy made a mistake and because of that mistake daddy has to go :ahh:

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Any option is better than sitting up and crying and watching the notebook
the only real answer :wow:


double if you include "the family"


if there's one thing, no matter how hoeish a woman is, that they don't want everyone knowing....... it's how hoeish they are.. that's why it's always "we grew apart, he wasn't right for me, we fell out of love" instead of "hey i was fukking a dude from work"


make her tell the family what she was out here doing... or better yet fwd them the evidence... she won't even want to go home and look her OWN family in the eye.. meanwhile they looking at you like you a godsend for putting up with their whore daughter :blessed:
 

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While she was on her trip, I figured out her main guy's last name. I searched his name and found out that he had just been released from prison in November. He was convicted and sentenced to 25 years in prison for killing his girlfriend's toddler son. He spent 2 years in jail until he won his appeal due to a juror issue and got a mistrial. He has a new trial in May. After she came back from her trip, I confronted my wife about her odd behavior and phone records indicating that she had called this man multiple times. She denied that anything was odd and that she had never talked to him. I told her what I found out about him. I said his name, showed her his mugshot, and showed her his criminal history. She didn't seem interested and said "why would I talk to someone who killed a child when I have a child?" Apparently she didn't know his background. For the next couple of days she searched the internet and viewed all of the websites concerning his case. I thought that would be the end of it. I was dead wrong. They now talk about their future life together- marriage, kids, happiness. She sends him pictures and videos daily of my son. My wife refers to her main guy as my son's "step-dad" and talks about how she can't wait for them to meet.

WOW
fukkING WHAT
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bih don't even know her side man a baby killer
and don't even give a fukk when she found out
stupid ass c*nt whore is gonna find out the hard way. her son gonna end up dead one day and she gonna run back crying to the father
but hopefully the father will be super saiyan hoh

why do so many bytches gotta leave good men for deadbeats and killas :scust:
shyt this makes me mad
to not only betray your man's trust but to endanger your child with your man with a fukking murderer:pacspit:

fukk i'm actually heated as shyt :snoop:

fukk IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE:snoop::snoop:
 

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What these guys fail to understand is that women control the sex market and can get any men to fufill their sexual did idea exactly how they want, same can't be said for the average men. Commitment on the other hand is hard for most women to get. Just because she is with you, it does not mean that is you she ultimately sexually desires. Work your way to the point you are that nikka.

Anyways, the more stories I read, the less interested I am in marriage.
 
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