I can't support anyone on here who is "pro-black community" but anti-marriage

[the next guy]

I agree with this. Single parent homes are on the rise of white America as well. And its having noticable effects.

When you look at all the major school shootings, Columbine, NIU, Newtown? What do you see? Parallels to the black community with the parenting situation. Klebold, Harris, Kazmierczak, Lanza all the fathers were working long ass hours or remarried to a bimbo after running from Mom in Lanza's case. Society needs to put more pressue on men of all races now but that's why the kids are out of control.

 

[marcuz]

They tend to be more dysfunctional because there is less incentive for the two partners to stay together and work out through their issues. Of course there are exceptions.

divorce rates are already at 50%. whether your marriage will fail or not is really a coin toss. do you have any proof kids from non-married two parent homes come out dysfunctional?

 

[marcuz]

When you look at all the major school shootings, Columbine, NIU, Newtown? What do you see? Parallels to the black community with the parenting situation. Klebold, Harris, Kazmierczak, Lanza all the fathers were working long ass hours or remarried to a bimbo after running from Mom in Lanza's case. Society needs to put more pressue on men of all races now but that's why the kids are out of control.

once again, 70% of divorces are initiated by the woman. how is it the mens fault? what EXTRA pressure would you suggest we put on them.

 

[the next guy]

once again, 70% of divorces are initated by the woman. how is it the mens fault? what EXTRA pressure would you suggest we put on them.

I am not getting married anytime soon, but it seems like women are leaving because they can. Men have to show they care.

 

[Micky Mikey]

divorce rates are already at 50%. whether your marriage will fail or not is really a coin toss. do you have any proof kids from non-married two parent homes come out dysfunctional?

Yes I do and I will gladly post all of them once I leave work. Yes divorce Ratez are high. I believe it all has to due with society's devaluation of marriage.

 

[marcuz]

I am not getting married anytime soon, but it seems like women are leaving because they can. Men have to show they care.

what? so the problem is these men just dont show they "care" enough?

 

[marcuz]

Yes I do and I will gladly post all of them once I leave work. Yes divorce Ratez are high. I believe it all has to due with society's devaluation of marriage.

that's because marriage has no value anymore. like i've said almost half a dozen times, it's a business contract that doesn't benefit men. we dont need to sign that piece of paper to be a good father and partner to your wife. hell, have a wedding, get a ring, call eachother husband and wife -- but you dont need that contract.

 

[the next guy]

what? so the problem is these men just dont show they "care" enough?

I'm not married and don't agreed with getting married right but that's what most women say in those surveys breh. All women of all races say this.

 

[marcuz]

I'm not married and don't agreed with getting married right but that's what most women say in those surveys breh. All women of all races say this.

no they dont they either cheat or bytch about how the husband isn't making enough money. show me these surveys?

 

[the next guy]

no they dont they either cheat or bytch about how the husband isn't making enough money. show me these surveys?

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...1408/why-great-husbands-are-being-abandoned-0

 

[marcuz]

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...1408/why-great-husbands-are-being-abandoned-0

I am currently dealing with several of these great husbands. They are, across the board, respectful, quality, caring, devoted, cherishing, authentic, and supportive guys whose wives have left them for a different kind of man. These once-beloved men make a living, love their kids, help with chores, support aging parents, and support their mate’s desires and interests. They believe they’ve done everything right. They are devastated, confused, disoriented, and heartsick. In a tragic way, they startlingly resemble the disheartened women of the past who were left behind by men who “just wanted something new.”

im going to assume you didn't read this article before you pasted it. basically says women are leaving GREAT husbands out of boredom,

edit: btw, that wasn't a survey

 

[Theraflu]

@the next guy great points breh

 

[Colicat]

that's because marriage has no value anymore. like i've said almost half a dozen times, it's a business contract that doesn't benefit men. we dont need to sign that piece of paper to be a good father and partner to your wife. hell, have a wedding, get a ring, call eachother husband and wife -- but you dont need that contract.

May I ask you what assets you are adamantly protecting?

What benefits for men would you need to believe in marriage?

 

[Theraflu]

It's sad because the reality of a Black American woman is, if she does get married; it will be to someone who makes less than she does...

Where all these rich Black men who will have to pay someone like me alimony?.... Point me in their direction....

It's black women in every major Western country. Sadly from DC to London to NYC to Paris through no fault of our own black men make up the highest rate of unemployment among men of all races.

The reality is unless they wanna become welfare queens black women HAVE to work. Coli men clearly live in alternate universe where every black man is balling and black women are sitting waiting to get alimony from them

 

[Colicat]

It's black women in every major Western country. Sadly from DC to London to NYC to Paris through no fault of our own black men make up the highest rate of unemployment among men of all races.

The reality is unless they wanna become welfare queens black women HAVE to work. Coli men clearly live in alternate universe where every black man is balling and black women are sitting waiting to get alimony from them

I forgot that I was posting on the Coli....6 figure dudes all up through here