mcdivit85
Superstar
I swear that's the funniest thing to me. Regular dudes with regular jobs living regular lives thinking Ivana Trump has eyes on their $1,312.83 life savings
Peace
I can't support anyone on here who is "pro-black community" but anti-marriage
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I swear that's the funniest thing to me. Regular dudes with regular jobs living regular lives thinking Ivana Trump has eyes on their $1,312.83 life savings
Peace
I'm Billy FUCO!!
Banned
Every time there's a discussion about divorce on here, you always gotta have some clowns asking "why you so afraid of divorce? Ain't like you got anything to take"Chris Rock already addressed this: "If you got $20 million and your wife want $10 million, big deal, you ain't starving........but if you got $30,000 and your wife want $15,000, you might have to kill her"
If you wanna diss nikkas for being broke, just diss nikkas for being broke
. But don't try to bring that shyt up against them in the marriage/divorce discussion. All you're doing is proving their point of why they should be extra-cautious to not put whatever little they have, at risk of being taken from them
Chris Rock already addressed this: "If you got $20 million and your wife want $10 million, big deal, you ain't starving........but if you got $30,000 and your wife want $15,000, you might have to kill her"
If you wanna diss nikkas for being broke, just diss nikkas for being broke
Nikka explain how a wife is taking 15k when she making more?....what reality are you living in where a nikka making 30k has a stay at home wife?.... That lady is working her fingers to the bone....
what motivation do i have to be a good girlfriend to the same guy for 60 years when i could just get some new dikk & excitement and still be a girlfriend
that piece of paper doesn't magically make you loyal or stop women from jumping on new dikk. what are you saying right now?
You should love with the women you produce with....but mainly they need support.... money and time with kids. You don't have to be married.
I think the OP is speaking on the black family structure.
The OP is wrong.... but idk Y a person would be against marriage tho... my ex is sitting nice, got madd money , and will keep getting it. But it is what it is, I'm not against marriage. It's a beautiful thing if you find the right person.
1 Man can actually take care of more than one women.. and support a few kids. a women though.... really shouldn't be having more than one BD unless she'smarried to her 2nd BD. IMO
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
let me tell yall something...from personal experience...not some shyt i heard...not some internet tall tale....
ive been thru a divorce...ive been in family court...still have to go from time to time dealing with my ex
99.9% of men have nothing to fear as far as alimony goes....if youre a millionaire...maybe...especially if you have a wife that doesnt work....
but these arent problems for the average american....most families need 2 incomes to barely survive...so for almost everyone of you in here...your wife will be working breh...alimony is not something you'll have to worry about
child support: well...theres no getting around that...i pay about $900/mo for my son...child support is determined by a formula that takes into account yours and the mothers income...nights the child spends with you...etc...my ex drug me back to court crying about she needed more money back in march...judge asked her what shes doing with the 900 she getting now....she couldnt answer
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stay on top of EVERYTHING...never....EVER. miss a court date...this is where a lot of brehs mess up....
not bragging but i probably make more $$$ than the majority of you...and im not getting screwed over...stay on top of your business and you will be good....
marriage is nothing to be afraid of...im married again...and its lovely
ive been thru a divorce...ive been in family court...still have to go from time to time dealing with my ex
99.9% of men have nothing to fear as far as alimony goes....if youre a millionaire...maybe...especially if you have a wife that doesnt work....
but these arent problems for the average american....most families need 2 incomes to barely survive...so for almost everyone of you in here...your wife will be working breh...alimony is not something you'll have to worry about
child support: well...theres no getting around that...i pay about $900/mo for my son...child support is determined by a formula that takes into account yours and the mothers income...nights the child spends with you...etc...my ex drug me back to court crying about she needed more money back in march...judge asked her what shes doing with the 900 she getting now....she couldnt answer
....stay on top of EVERYTHING...never....EVER. miss a court date...this is where a lot of brehs mess up....
not bragging but i probably make more $$$ than the majority of you...and im not getting screwed over...stay on top of your business and you will be good....
marriage is nothing to be afraid of...im married again...and its lovely
Please tell me you've been beat up IRL.... I wish I could punch you in your laryngeal prominence
Mr Hate Coffee
Veteran
They're not mutually exclusive but it's impossible to have a strong community without a solid family structure and to get that you need marriages.
The anti-marriage folks are more on the pessimistic side that feels that women don't honor the contract and purpose of marriage. I see their point too.
So perhaps it's you can't support anyone who is pro-black community but anti-successful marriages? I don't see how anyone could argue that.
The anti-marriage folks are more on the pessimistic side that feels that women don't honor the contract and purpose of marriage. I see their point too.
So perhaps it's you can't support anyone who is pro-black community but anti-successful marriages?
I don't see how anyone could argue that.
Midwest
Hanging em up
This site is getting fukking ridiculous
Davin Black
Rookie
Co-sign everything @Mr Hate Coffee said.
That, and pre-nups aren't just for wealthy folks, brehs. Makes marriage less ominous.
That, and pre-nups aren't just for wealthy folks, brehs. Makes marriage less ominous.
I'm sorry just can't.
Don't use drugs!!!!!!
Let me get a pull of that blunt though doggie
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
Co-sign everything @Mr Hate Coffee said.
That, and pre-nups aren't just for wealthy folks, brehs. Makes marriage less ominous.
breh...the vast majority of people dont need prenups...the dont have anything to protect....house? cars? debt? thats pretty much all they have and that will be divided in the divorce settlement anyway
the average household income is $50K (http://money.cnn.com/2013/09/17/news/economy/poverty-income/)
...2 people breh bringing in 25k a piece...what do these people need with a prenup? actually in my mind the average person is more in need of marriage than a person of means....you damn near need 2 incomes to survive....
people get too fixated on what some athlete or billionaire is paying in child support and alimony....those are problems the average man/woman dont need to worry about...they dont apply to them