I do exceedingly better with dating online than I do in person

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My thing is this, what if I meet a really great girl online and we get serious, but inside I'm still thinking, "But can I pull these hoes?":flabbynsick:

If you're thinking those things already then you are kind of self-defeating the purpose of seeking a relationship.
Because on the surface it looks like you serious about her but in the inside really you're thinking about just trying to wet your stick.

Have purpose my friend! Patience is the winning pace my nikka
 

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If you're thinking those things already then you are kind of self-defeating the purpose of seeking a relationship.
Because on the surface it looks like you serious about her but in the inside really you're thinking about just trying to wet your stick.

Have purpose my friend! Patience is the winning pace my nikka
It's a pride thing...like as a man
 

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It's a pride thing...like as a man

No, I totally understand and get it.

I'm just saying after a while you should feel beyond the needs as a dude to score other chicks and feel the settled in once you gamed someone you really like. (Keep your options open till then my guy.)

I'm just saying, some people can only get coin (penny) in the ground considering that good-luck coming here you are kind of looking for oil in gold before you lucky chance.
One step at a time you're jumping ahead of yourself.
My bro is better at this, he would tell me his secret to meeting other women when he has a girlfriend is to always look/sound/be seen as the winner.
I'm not really with that but I totally dig the wave.

Just try to take focus on where the energies take you instead of rushing it. It will feel more natural when you don't rush things therefore won't feel as needy and that's more attractive.
 

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This isn't that uncommon, most people have very busy lives or just introverted, online dating/hooking up is just another way of meeting women for such people.

Dudes that have time to interact with and flirt with women at every gas station, and grocery store they go to usually don't have shyt going on:manny:
 

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No, I totally understand and get it.

I'm just saying after a while you should feel beyond the needs as a dude to score other chicks and feel the settled in once you gamed someone you really like. (Keep your options open till then my guy.)

I'm just saying, some people can only get coin (penny) in the ground considering that good-luck coming here you are kind of looking for oil in gold before you lucky chance.
One step at a time you're jumping ahead of yourself.
My bro is better at this, he would tell me his secret to meeting other women when he has a girlfriend is to always look/sound/be seen as the winner.
I'm not really with that but I totally dig the wave.

Just try to take focus on where the energies take you instead of rushing it. It will feel more natural when you don't rush things therefore won't feel as needy and that's more attractive.

I dont even wanna cheat...its just knowing I guess

Maybe as u get older u stop giving fukk

I just want a kid at least any way
 

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Are you saying that you’re afraid of cheating on your girl with girls online or you can’t approach girls in person
 

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Are you saying that you’re afraid of cheating on your girl with girls online or you can’t approach girls in person
I'm saying I approach girls in person and online

And that I do a lot better with them online

And I cant even agree that it's a confidence issue because sometimes I'm nervous, sometimes I'm very confident

I've maybe hollered at 5 girls this year max, because I live in a mostly white area, and I go after Black women

So maybe that has to do with it

Just law of averages
 

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The quality on dating apps is low compared to real life. The competition for a small number of women that aren't active, live way too far isn't worth the money. Most people in their 20s-30s don't mess with apps like that its just older people
 
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Maybe you're photogenic and more attractive in pics ? Idk The confidence thing doesn't have much to do with it imo.
 
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