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Take care of your needs BEFORE you go out to date.:stopitslime:

Dating should not be a source of income.

(My ovaries just told me “STFU bytch! And stop hating! These nikkas choosin and spending. While u gettin them wack ass free hiking dates in the woods like you wannabe Sasquatches’ bytch, Imma order crab legs as an appetizer! That sounds goood to me! Fukk these nikkas! Get money bytch!”)


As I was saying, dating is just about getting to know somebody. If you need all of this prior to meeting someone, you need to fix that shyt. You are there to date, not to find a substitute daddy.
This is an example of women dating from a deficit mindset of unmet needs. Some chicks got money and still are like this. I understand the mentality but it’s not healthy.
 

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Take care of your needs BEFORE you go out to date.:stopitslime:

Dating should not be a source of income.

(My ovaries just told me “STFU bytch! And stop hating! These nikkas choosin and spending. While u gettin them wack ass free hiking dates in the woods like you wannabe Sasquatches’ bytch, Imma order crab legs as an appetizer! That sounds goood to me! Fukk these nikkas! Get money bytch!”)


As I was saying, dating is just about getting to know somebody. If you need all of this prior to meeting someone, you need to fix that shyt. You are there to date, not to find a substitute daddy.
This is an example of women dating from a deficit mindset of unmet needs. Some chicks got money and still are like this. I understand the mentality but it’s not healthy.

So then you secretly agree with her
 

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The women really gettin these type of accommodations are not out here blowing up there spot like this duck…she getting fast money dudes at best who only give af about looks and they be the quickest to move on to a badder joint regardless hence why she so out there wit her "demands" cause she experienced it you can hear in her tone…the real bosses/go getters ain’t going for her type at all, shawty better wake the fukk up LOL....
 
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Stopped listening to birds chirp nikka

same bytches who say that are the same hoes who got nikkas laying up in they section 8 crib and eating they kids fruit loops

true. they just be all talk. its bait to see who really dumb enough to do it but they dont really mean it. its just something to draw attention and get people talking most of the time. :russ:
 

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Gotta weed out the simps first. As long as they exist,this shyt aint going anywhere :francis:
Always been simps
And if you going to blame them, gotta blame nikkas that use women and toss them away
But still treat them with respect
 

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I seen her around the way. She fine in person. But the shyt she post in her stories about what she want in a man is crazy delusional :russ: She's a bartender, most of them think like that.
That's the funniest part. Most of the chic's that ask for these crazy requirements be working dead end jobs that don't even pay them enough to afford the lifestyle they asking brehs for :mjlol:
 

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So then you secretly agree with her
Lmao! The inner child agrees with her. Hell you like people giving you shyt too. That’s natural.

But as a female, some take the desire to hoard resources too far. Like I get it. Every woman privileges the resources a man can provide her b/c traditionally the only real means of wealth and power we had access to was through men. Also we have offspring to think about. It’s biological.

Thus, I understand those impulses. But thinking like that is based off surviving. Not thriving. It’s based off dating from a deficit mindset. This need to get something out of somebody or assigning an almost utilitarian function to dating.

Honestly, it zaps all the fun outta meeting somebody new. You can’t have fun and be yourself if you calculating what you can get out of them instead of wanting to get to know them. And times have changed. Women ain’t gotta do all of that to survive anymore.

Those base needs aren’t good or bad and there are reasons for them. But ultimately they aren’t the responsibility of a stranger you just met. When you date without taking care of the shyt you need, you end up becoming predatory.:yeshrug:And it’s cringeworthy as fukk. I’ve never gone on a date to get my bills paid. Not saying it wouldn’t be nice. Do lie like it wouldn’t be…lol!

But somebody you JUST met? Expecting them to drop crazy amounts of dough? It’s not necessary. Or healthy.
 
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