I think it’s disingenuous to assume that every incel is some 300lb Chris Chan esque loser seething behind his computer screen 24/7 expecting a supermodel to fly out of the sky. There are guys like that, but I honestly think it’s unrealistic to assume that’s the majority. there are just as many guys that are trying or have tried but still can’t get any luck and are left jaded and bitter because of that.

Where do you think the term gymcel came from?
How can people go on these threads and say men have their standards too high and that they don’t try hard enough but go in other threads and marvel at how low men are stooping for below average p*ssy? How can they imply that the dating game isn’t an imbalanced wreck right now when we get at least two or three threads a week about how low the odds are in favor of men? I bet the same guys saying "just hit up tinder" or "it ain't that serious" are the same guys in other threads bragging about their 3 dozen matches. I counted like 2 different platinum threads about the 80/20 rule last week.
The biggest problem with GenZ incels is the internet. It fluffs the egos and validates the thottery of women everywhere. Even the ones that look like blimps are getting DM’d and simped for, it demotivated men from going outside because it gives them porn and a way to interact with women in a couple of clicks, and most importantly… It’s demoralizing as hell. especially if you aren’t white or a woman.
A lot of incels were just normal young men that weren't lucky with women or didn't know how to fix what's wrong with them. They go on those kinds of sites and end up messing up their mind with demoralizing threads basically telling them that it's hopeless, and the way the dating game is at right now does not help. You won't even get good advice nowadays, just simps and guys who rule the dating game telling you that you're the problem or oldheads with a bunch of generic outdated tips or the standard pull yourself up by your bootstraps "do it yourself" advice.
There are definitely a lot of incels that were hopeless from the start, but the majority of people would rather generalize them all as a terrorist hate-group or a bunch of entitled and lazy basement dwellers so you have a bunch of these dudes that could have been saved stewing in their own bile alone until they either figure out what's wrong with them or they dig themselves deeper in the hole until they find trouble