I think some dudes just don’t know how to talk to women. That’s really what it comes down to. No social skills. They will talk themselves out some p*ssy with the quickness
I have a homeboy who is 5’4 and built like a dodgeball and he never had issues getting some ass when he wanted it. My nikka never did shyt but work mediocre jobs, smoke, drink, play video games and chase tail. But he was a volume shooter. He was like the JR Smith of this. He missed most of his shots but when he was on he was on
To sum it all up y’all ain’t got nobody to blame but yourselves. Get in where you fit in