I don't condone Jovan Belcher killing his GF but I understand.

[rapbeats]

No you won't. You will say that you understand and then turn him into the victim (just like this thread). I have no issue pointing out when women do something wrong; however, you will never get me to defame this murdered woman. If she was so horrible he should have left.

a man just cant up and leave and still have custody of his daughter. he would've had to give it up to her. what if he didnt want to do that? what if he truly wanted to take care of his own daughter and make her come due visitations etc. she would'nt even have to pay child support. but let her take him to court and win(which we know there's an 85% probability that she would've won custody based solely on the fact that she's the woman in the relationship). he would then have to go visit his daughter at his crazy Baby mama's discretion. and he would've been paying crazy doe in child support. which would've also resulted in hair doos and purses, nails done,etc for his ex chick to look cute for other men. next thing you know he has to support her and his daughter and some clown that she has living with them and his daughter. we know this happens A LOT in these situations.
not saying you should ever go the kill em route. that should only happen in self defense. or defense of other people.

but you have to admit the scene was always going to be much bleaker for him then it was for her. no matter how you spin it. she was going to have custody of her daughter and have him paying her child support. this means whatever he did when they were together as far as the money he gave her was concerned. he no longer would have control over her spending habits. so not only will she be taking your money, not just enough for the child to survive while she's at the mothers home. but enough for the child to live in a nice home in a good neighborhood, etc. but now you cant dictate where, how and how much your young ex GF spends the money. he would've had to deal with this for 18 years.

now on the flip side. if there was evidence thats suggests he was running around on her and she was sick and tired of it. by all means. take the kid(shared custody) and dont request child support. since its 50/50 custody. when she's with him the little girl is well taken care of. when she's not its back to normal life with mama.

^^this is the truth and you know it KD.

 

[Greenstrings]

No. I don't. I study sociology with a focus on statistical/quantitative research methods. However, I do like to study interactions on message boards. I don't do it formally, but I just kind of analyze the reoccuring themes and topics within threads when I visit them. I also analyze news article comments for fun.

Aah cool, just wondering.

I'm an anthropology student and have always found it striking how relatively little consideration is give to the ways in which the internet alters social dynamics at the cutting edge of the field.

 

[Seea]

Steriods nor concussions had anything to do with this incident. The guy felt betrayed and didn't think the girl would be a good mother. He killed her and didn't want to rot in jail for it. Can't blame him. The kid might be better off.

You don't know the full story, and you've said so, but you typed and submitted this post with the utmost confidence.

nikkas.

 

[O.G.B]

Just because you TRY to insult someone's intelligence DOES NOT make you intelligent. I can just about guarantee that my IQ is higher than yours and that I am more educated than you. You are doing what most men who are insecure about their intellect do which is try to talk down to someone. Dude you could NEVER touch me intellectually. Statiscially, I am apart of the elite few in regard to both intellect AND education.

eta: and the funny part is that I'm not even a damn feminist. I am HUMAN who thinks it is inappropriate to go out of your way to defame and murder victim and defend a murderer.

Are you seriously delusional?! You can't even form a coherent sentence of substance without blathering! I can guarantee without a doubt that your IQ is nowhere higher than mine. LOL! But if it makes you feel better about yourself to think you are really intelligent then so be it! And I could care less about your opinion on this, or any other matter as it's apparent that you have more than a few screws loose.

 

[Soundbwoy]

Killing yaself over your girl liking Trey Songz? That shyt is crazy! I do agree with the T/S that women need to stop thinking these "good guys" won't murk your ass over trying to get over on them. I've been trying to tell women this for the longest. Keep trying to prey on them regular, well-intentioned, nikkas and get the Jovan Belcher treatment. You think Reincar playing that shyt?

 

[Drew Wonder]

Some people can not deal with betrayal and disloyalty at all. I'm on of them. Especially someone they love and take care of. It's basically treason and mutany on a personal scale. Seriously, some people have a very hard time dealing with someone they love and hold close to them being disloyal and disrespectful. Being from Louisiana (old south) I've known many people that have gotten killed in love quarrels and arguments. To this day don't get involved in domestic abuse and a mess with women that are involved with someone else.

I can tell you exactly what happen and who Jovan is. He a normal traditionally good guy (simp to most of the coli) found a girl he loved and was giving world to. All he wanting in return was a few things. Be loyal, respectful and a good wife and mother to his kids. I'm sure this lady could basically get whatever she wanted, with him providing. I'm sure Jovan thought that love and wealth, what more could she want? Unfortunalty we're dealing with a lot of conflicted women. For him to be giving her his all and for her to threaten taking his kid and being disrespectful to him, im sure that was total betrayal to him. He snapped. And if she is like a lot of modern women that's done with a relationship or marriage. She was pure evil, saying and doing things that hurt him deep. Using every thing she knows to break him down. Some people can not handle betrayal and treason at all. We love hard and or very serious about honor and respect.


Some, including myself would rather be dead then to dishonor our families and love ones, in return we feel that dishonorable people don't deserve to live. I've never been seriously jerked over by a love one or by my girlfriend. I'm similar to Jovan, but I'm very selective when it comes women, bcuz I know how I am. And I know how i feel about betrayal and disloyalty. I know I could kill someone that fukks over me. And I know I'm not ever doing time in jail. I wouldn't kill myself, but i'm not going to jail.

Seriously, women need to know the guys they fukk over. A lot of the good guys will kill you if you fukk them over. Most players know most women arent to be trusted so much.

I don't know this young lady or if all the stories I've read are real. Im just sharing my opinion on the stories I've read about this sitiution and comparing them with real life situations that I've dealt with first hand. God bless them all.

bruh, cut the holier than thou act. I remember the thread you made on sohh talking about cheating on your main girl and treating your jumpoff like shyt.

if either one of those chicks offed you I certainly wouldn't condone their actions...but I would understand

my problem with nyggas like you is that you expect women to live up to a standard that you yourself don't live up to.

and you using an example like this to further your bullshyt agenda is absolutely disgusting.

 

[Taadow]

Man...this a long-ass thread...

...considering we only have a fragment of the facts surrounding this ordeal...

But both of 'em are dead. No amount of indignation from anyone here is gonna change that. And either one of them don't care about what anybody has to say about them, because they are dead.

In the meantime, there are folks out here doing the same chit. And lookin' at the way some of you all are talking to each other, y'all might catch a hot one (or 2 or 3, etc) one day.

 

[SouthernBelle]

Are you seriously delusional?! You can't even form a coherent sentence of substance without blathering! I can guarantee without a doubt that your IQ is nowhere higher than mine. LOL! But if it makes you feel better about yourself to think you are really intelligent then so be it! And I could care less about your opinion on this, or any other matter as it's apparent that you have more than a few screws loose.

What intellectual honor societies does your IQ score qualify you for? What is your percentile? What percentile of people have a degree lower than yours? How many published academic articles have you written and/or presented? Again, statistically speaking, there is only a 1 or 2 percent chance that you're on the same level as me intellectually. That's a FACT based my scores and percentiles.

Also, it's I "couldn't" care less. What you wrote implies that you do care

 

[SouthernBelle]

Aah cool, just wondering.

I'm an anthropology student and have always found it striking how relatively little consideration is give to the ways in which the internet alters social dynamics at the cutting edge of the field.

Cool. I have gotten into that debate a lot with people in my field. We can't ignore the idea of the internet as a place/space because it provides so much rich data. I've read a few books recently about "internet ethnography" and I really like the idea. Are you a grad or undergrad?

 

[aqualung]

News clips say that Jovan and this gf had multiple guns and would enjoy trips to the shooting range together.

Friends of hers told news reporters that during their last argument, the gf just moved out for a few days and then came back. -_-

I DO NOT UNDERSTAND ALL THIS MOVIN' IN AND OUT fukkERY WHEN A NEWBORN BABY IS INVOLVED. Sit your ass down in one place and raise your daughter, chick.
--Forget Trey Songz. Go breastfeed.
--Forget bickering with baby daddy. Change a diaper.
Where do these young gals find the energy for all this EXTRA DRAMA plus a baby not yet weaned?
Where they do THAT AT? 0_o

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Jovan Belcher is a fuccin coward for doin this shyt. its absolutley crazy how some of yall condone or empathize with his actions

 

[Pazzy]

stuntone, i just want to let you know that you're a bytch. you talk about this coward like he's a hero.

 

[Stuntone]

Just because you TRY to insult someone's intelligence DOES NOT make you intelligent. I can just about guarantee that my IQ is higher than yours and that I am more educated than you. You are doing what most men who are insecure about their intellect do which is try to talk down to someone. Dude you could NEVER touch me intellectually. Statiscially, I am apart of the elite few in regard to both intellect AND education.

eta: and the funny part is that I'm not even a damn feminist. I am HUMAN who thinks it is inappropriate to go out of your way to defame and murder victim and defend a murderer.

You could of fooled most of us. You really think you're elite because of you have a degree in Sociology from some Phoenix online type of school?



My degree is in Computer Science from a reputable university and I don't brag about it, bcuz I know a degree don't equate to intelligence, but I ain't hating.

You go girl! You strong, intelligent, independent, phenomenal Black Queen

 

[Stuntone]

stuntone, i just want to let you know that you're a bytch. you talk about this coward like he's a hero.

Calling me a bytch online makes you a real bytch. When was the last time you called a man a bytch in person? What makes you more of a bytch is you somehow took me saying that some people can't handle this kind of shyt, for me saying he's a hero. Just like bytches do. No where can you show me saying this guy's is a hero. You couldn't possibly had a father in your house hold.


Get out of my thread pussified azz fukk boy.

 

[Pazzy]

the funny thing about this thread is that you said that you don't condone what he did BUT yet you basically condoned what he did in that long paragraph.

talking about good guys will kill someone if they're betrayed. good guys don't kill people out of jealousy or for no reason.